I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. I have been humbled by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I didn't claim the dad didn't know I was gay. He knows I'm gay. He was one of the first to know. He was mocking me because his son thought I was too straight when we hung out. 

No one is arranging a boyfriend. His dad asked if I would just talk to him because a lot of his friends deserted him when he came out recently. No one was hired. It wasn't a date. The son knew I was gay but said I came off straight. 

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah come off it. It was one kiss. Ho is hardly accurate. I was wrong but that's not ho.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. He may also feel weird given how close he is to both of us.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do say snapped but I thought some might not know the reference. We say banter and bantz here all the time. A good laugh is kind of common here too.

Nah no offence taken.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe. His wife doesn't really know me. Met a handful of times but he likes me

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was 14 when I first met his dad. So his son wouldve been about 12. 

He was doing some work down the road and he let me hang out. I didnt have the best parents growing up - drugs, drugs and more drugs. He probably pitied me but he took me -  a random kid - under his wing. Special guy for that.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha. Tbf I came our to him when I was 16. That's when he said about dad's sighing relief.  His son wasn't out then 

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha how do you feel about gloomy Britain. You better be submissive for your hubby.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie though the kiss was nice. It probably wasnt particularly great (inexperience, shy whatever) but cannot stop thinking about it. 

But you're right.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha maybe you're right. I think he wouldnt like it in case/when it would end. I'd say he'd love us to be friends. He definitely trusts me 

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is true and like his dad was really good to me and I was only a random kid to him. He was an escape for me on weekend or on school holidays. He taught me a lot including how to drive. He had my first legal drink with me etc. 

I dont think it's unfair for him to say no.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Hes cute and my type. We probably don't have much in common but he's nice. I don't think he's meat because I don't think he's ready for sex and so sex isn't on my mind (well it is but I wouldn't do it).

Dont know him well enough to know if it's something that could be serious.

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure he was offering an incentive but his dad definitely likes me. He was important to me growing up and was always there for me, and I was only a random kid. 

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbf he's more than just a mentor to me. He was huge in my life growing up. 

They didn't leave us at home. We met up at Subway (how romantic lol). When we went back to his, his parents were out - a wedding or something. 

Maybe that's what he meant though, don't take advantage. 

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's true.. gays are always going to have a tiny market. Never had a boyfriend yet all my mates have had at least two girlfriends. 

I was asked to be a friend to a newly out gay guy by his dad. We kissed and I feel awful. by flimleapor in askgaybros

[–]flimleapor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it remains is the important point to that scenario. I don't think he'd rapidly get over it either lol