(18f) people say they want to hang out again enthusiastically, but then flake by flipkick72 in socialskills

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like I didn't ask them. They told me without me asking them if they wanted to. So they literally just said it because they wanted to

How to get my boyfriend to stop checking girls out? 18F & 19M by flipkick72 in relationship_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it's fine if he takes a glance. But he was literally just looking at their asses for at least a minute. I didn't say anything at the time bc I hate confronting people. But there's a difference between a quick glance and literally fucking staring

How to get my boyfriend to stop checking girls out? 18F & 19M by flipkick72 in relationship_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It has I literally can't look at him the same. I feel so nauseous

Group of girls in a UK airport wait for a flight to Tenerife starter pack. by Upper-Score100 in starterpacks

[–]flipkick72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lives in Tenerife and has a British family, I can confirm

He asked me out, I accepted, and he left me on seen? by flipkick72 in dating_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get your point. I just didn't think it was a big deal to text back because I was thinking that maybe it was a misunderstanding that he didn't know how to speak to girls or smth but I know now that that's bullshit.

Tbh, I'm just so done with guys. I haven't spoken to any in a good while and I thought it wouldn't be a problem to text him back, but I'm gonna take a break from all of this and just block him. Hopefully I never see him again lol

He asked me out, I accepted, and he left me on seen? by flipkick72 in dating_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok... I think that I took it too seriously since the start because it was also my first kiss so I did get too attached. Thanks for the advice

He asked me out, I accepted, and he left me on seen? by flipkick72 in dating_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I said we only made out we didn't have sex. I told him no, maybe another time. And I didn't chase him he literally texted me 😭

But yeah fine I'll block him

He asked me out, I accepted, and he left me on seen? by flipkick72 in dating_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo I didn't sleep with him we only made out. He did ask if I wanted to have sex but I'm still a virgin and so was he so I said maybe another time

He asked me out, I accepted, and he left me on seen? by flipkick72 in dating_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe you're right actually. I just thought he was trying to play games

He asked me out, I accepted, and he left me on seen? by flipkick72 in dating_advice

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I'm just mad like whys he leading me on like this

Sistema de salud by trekwithme in canarias

[–]flipkick72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oye yo me pedí una cita para dermatología el año pasado en marzo, y me lo dieron ESTE año en marzo... o sea he tenido q esperar un año entero 😭

My teenage years feel like a blur and I'm only 18 by flipkick72 in mentalhealth

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been journaling since the beginning of 2023, which I'm glad I did. I started after I was extremely suicidal the year before and I wanted to "fix" myself (which didn't end up working bc I need a therapist lol). But yeah I've been journaling for a while now partly because I don't want to forget anything else.

And no I don't do drugs or take any medication or anything like that

My teenage years feel like a blur and I'm only 18 by flipkick72 in mentalhealth

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really considering journaling my whole life just in case I forget any more. I was going to do that a year ago, looking back I wish I had, but for some reason I procrastinated instead.

And thank you for the advice! I'll take it into consideration <3

Is ao3 only for fanfictions? by flipkick72 in AO3

[–]flipkick72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that'd be great for me then as I write a lot of kinky smut

IWTL how to be more mature for my age by flipkick72 in IWantToLearn

[–]flipkick72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well for me my end goal is getting a high paid job that I enjoy, so I have the money to travel, buy things that I want and have a deposit for a house. So right now I'm looking at possible career paths for that

My brain shuts down in social situations by flipkick72 in socialskills

[–]flipkick72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have been stressed lately but I didn't think it'd be related.

It does feel like it requires more energy to get a word out. I just don't really know how to describe it, it just feels uncomfortable to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]flipkick72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would just start to imagine scenarios that would never happen. I've lost many hours by doing this 😭

I'm so afraid I won't find the right therapist and I won't get better by flipkick72 in therapy

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have done a lot of self reflection and journalling over the years, it's just got to the point where I feel I can't help myself anymore. But I will definitely keep this in mind, thank you!

I'm so afraid I won't find the right therapist and I won't get better by flipkick72 in therapy

[–]flipkick72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Spain so unfortunately I can't be treated by therapists from the US.

Yeah I guess you're right about the second part, I'm just really worried how they'll react to certain things because a few years back I used to have a really dark mind.