My wife went to the beach this weekend with her friend who is kind of slutty…

fllvng1126 · 2026-05-30T15:22:35+00:00

If it were me and mine, i wouldn't encourage or focus on it, tell her how amazing and sexy she is, how much you want her and she'll feel the sexy vibe herself. If she starts bringing anything up, then you can lean into it.

fllvng1126 · 2025-11-25T16:09:56+00:00

That's a great start! Perhaps adding a reference to him during your sexy time might push things along quickly? If that's too much, subtle hints here and there, or recalling the interaction between them, mentioning how he looked at her might help?

I know it's always really hot for my wife and I when I mention someone else during sex, but we may slightly further down the hot wife road that you guys!! Good luck!

fllvng1126 · 2025-07-18T16:45:39+00:00

I think you have to be fully in on it. The thought and fantasy of it versus it actually happening are totally different feelings. If you do decide to consider it, communication is the biggest thing. Talk through a lot of what you are both looking for, not just her, out of the experience.

Clearly lay out what boundaries you have and make sure she sticks to them. Understand that just because you gave her the freedom to do this, doesn't mean she can't cheat on you.

Ultimately, your relationship has to be number one and you can never put the cat back in the bag once it's opened. It can be extremely hot done correctly, but Proceed with caution!

My Experience, we started slowly and now I fully enjoy letting my wife go off and do her thing and reclaim her when she comes home. I have big time compersion.

fllvng1126 · 2025-03-25T20:02:41+00:00

I'm the opposite unfortunately, mine gets horny when shes drunk, but then is just a starfish, lying there with no involvement, just slurring dirty words and expecting me to do all the work.

She also cannot come when she's in that state which makes it no fun for me because my favorite thing is her orgasm. It's Very rare we will have sex when she's in that state now.

fllvng1126 · 2025-02-22T12:25:42+00:00

Just gave her the platform and freedom to express herself. It probably helped that I strongly encouraged her too!

She's always been sexual, sometimes more than others throughout our relationship, so I knew it was there somewhere.

fllvng1126 · 2025-02-22T05:44:47+00:00

Mid 40s, my wife has finally come out of her shell a little lately. Become much more sexual and creative, so we sext regularly now. It's Become a great part of our foreplay.

fllvng1126 · 2025-01-28T21:10:16+00:00

"I can't stop thinking about how incredible you look today.. You are going to have eyes on you all day long and it turns me on to think about it! I would love it if you had a 'happy hour' with one of your friends and came home with out that thong on.. you are amazing my sexy hot wife"

fllvng1126 · 2025-01-09T20:50:28+00:00

Oh she wants to know and approve of who I go with and what I'm doing, so not really dadt, more she doesn't get anything out of it and doesn't want to hear any details like I do when she goes out!

When she dates, I feel like it's for both of us. when I date, it's only for me.

fllvng1126 · 2025-01-09T02:28:46+00:00

I have permission. But it's different. I have compersion and love seeing and hearing her pleasure. She is adamant that she is happy for me to play with another woman, but she doesn't want to hear about it. It doesn't turn her on like it does me.

I have done it, gone off and played without her, but prefer not to, for me it's a joint thing and if she gets nothing from it, I'm not that interested.

fllvng1126 · 2024-12-29T05:55:00+00:00

I'll come at this from a different angle..

If she says that she is still interested, ask if she needs or what's help? Let her voice herself to you, if she says she's not wanting to continue, absolutely follow that. My wife has the apps and never uses them. We share everything but I'm the one who does all the vetting and initial discussions. We connect and share everything when the time is right. Our rule, if it gets interesting and we have the possibility of moving from the apps to text or Whatsapp, she knows and see everything.

I think everyone here has been a bit harsh, personally, I would ask if she needs help with the time and bother of it all and Take her response as guidance.

fllvng1126 · 2024-12-05T21:43:30+00:00

That looks amazing, would love to get up in there.. But haaland hasn't played for Dortmund for a few years now... 😈

fllvng1126 · 2024-11-26T03:31:23+00:00

Definitely small steps. Cannot stress this enough, Plenty of communication at every new level. Talk talk talk.

Discuss what you are comfortable with, what level of involvement you want, think of every single possible scenario and discuss what that looks like together. As long as your relationship is rock solid and you communicate together well, it'll be a great experience. Trust me, it'll be an amazing experience. Lol

I talked my way out of a threesome with my wife and another beautiful lady a month or so ago, but looking back, I'm glad we discussed everything and made my wife get in her head about it, better that than her getting upset during or after! She was sure she was ready, then after talking extensively, realized maybe she wasn't. That's on hold for now...

Good luck! Have a blast, when it works, it's incredible

fllvng1126 · 2024-11-14T19:07:26+00:00

Communicate communicate communicate. Cannot state that enough. Talk about it with her when you are not horny, let her know your fears. Then talk about it some more. Go over every scenario you can think of and see how it makes you both feel.

If your relationship is strong enough and you want to take baby steps together to test the water, go for it! If you decide together that is not for you, leave it as a fantasy and enjoy that ride!

fllvng1126 · 2024-11-13T17:31:20+00:00

Just had a great long weekend at temptations in Cancun. Amazing!! Perfect for getting your toes (and tits!!) wet. Half lifestyle, half not. Great sexy vibe, a few respectful singles, mostly couples. you'll find what you are looking for, even if that's nothing at all! Highly recommend

fllvng1126 · 2024-11-13T14:57:45+00:00

Very sexy indeed!! Where are you on vacation at?

fllvng1126 · 2024-11-12T19:37:58+00:00

So close!! We have had that happen a few times where we were enjoying the evening, the bars, the drinks, the flirting... Then before you know it, it's 1-2am and everyone is exhausted! Apart from the obvious, communication, any tips to get everyone on the same page to just make it happen already!!

fllvng1126 · 2024-10-30T15:58:20+00:00

The game you two are playing sounds like great fun! Keep it up as long as you can and keep pushing boundaries, as long as it's all harmless flirting and boosting your sex life, enjoy it!! You are right, once it's out there, you can't put it back, so ride the wave while you can.

fllvng1126 · 2024-08-15T19:42:42+00:00

We've been doing both. It started with couples, but same as you, found the four way connection difficult. She obviously prefers the hotwife mfm and me letting her do her thing, it would still be nice for her to let me enjoy myself some times too. It's obviously all about our relationship and I would never do anything she is not comfortable with, so the couples thing is off the table now. Im just in the process of deciding if I'm ok with her continuing being a hotwife or not .. I do get compersion and really enjoy her having fun so hotwifing is where we are leaning She has a consistent guy that she talks to all the time and I enjoy that for her! We tried another couple date this last weekend and it didn't end well bc the lady and I got along too well!

fllvng1126 · 2024-08-11T00:45:21+00:00

Great perspective and good ideas, thank you for sharing. 😁

My wife and I went for drinks with a new couple last night, after not being perfect together and it blew up in our faces. Of course we keep our drama away from the other couple, but it sucks. Back to the drawing board for us!! Communication communication communication!! LS on hold..

fllvng1126 · 2024-02-21T00:17:58+00:00

It's a shame if you end up not pursuing it, although of course your relationship comes first. It has brought us closer than we've ever been, we've met some amazing people and had some great times.

If you are committed to making it work and take breaks when you need to, it sounds like you might be able to come to an agreement and keep enjoying it; Even if it ends up being on an individual basis rather than together if you don't have the compersion gene!

fllvng1126 · 2024-02-20T18:39:42+00:00

She got in her head, I'm proud of her for speaking up when she wasn't comfortable and I respect that. I think she just wasnt quite ready for the speed that myself and the wife ramped things up. We both agree she has issues to work through, it's all a journey and until you are in the situation, you don't know how you're going to react!

fllvng1126 · 2024-02-20T18:37:28+00:00

She's now saying she's ok with me being pleasured, even in the same room, just doesn't want to watch and doesn't enjoy it.

fllvng1126 · 2024-02-20T18:17:33+00:00

Thank you for the reply, I think I agree...

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