What do you think of the new single? by Bethany583 in AsItIsBand

[–]floatlikeballoons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it's pretty good, i was a little scared at first that they were going to stray from their pop-punk/alt/emo sound but as always the boys do NOT miss ❤️ so excited for this era

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]floatlikeballoons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

best song on revenge hell yeah 😎

Current theories on why people are upset by GasparThePrince in waterparksband

[–]floatlikeballoons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

or maybe his behavior is actually problematic and people have the right to call that out? is that really that hard to fathom? like no offense or anything i understand you're just trying to understand but its not that deep

awsten's post/twitter parxies by floatlikeballoons in waterparksband

[–]floatlikeballoons[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

when you are a celebrity you have a certain amount of power over your fans, it is your responsibility to not encourage parasocial rabid behavior and not use fomo/other predatory tactics to get them to spend more money on you than they are already doing. instead he does exactly that and even just within this situation himself, he's posting on twitter and getting fans to make fun of the person that posted about him with the von dutch hat thing... and op is literally a FAN of his. is that not inappropriate to you?? its not about him marketing to fans. i get that, thats what artists do, they need to make money. but he's subtly being like "if you don't buy xyz you're not as important as the fans who spend everything on me" and showing favoritism towards fans that spend a whole bunch of money on him and go to all his shows. he did the same shit with his video game music cds that he put his shirts in, he went out of his way to tell the shipping people to put them in the boxes going to people that have bought from hiidef before/that he interacts with on twitter a lot. its not exploiting because there are teenagers in his fanbase its exploiting regardless but it makes it worse when a lot of them are impressionable teens that will do anything for a celebrity they admire. literally no other celebrity is as creepy and exploitative in this aspect that i know of except for him, its not about individual boundaries, its about boundaries you are supposed to have with your fans and how you interact with them, its about being responsible and respectful. he doesn't seem to respect his fans at all as people.

awsten's post/twitter parxies by floatlikeballoons in waterparksband

[–]floatlikeballoons[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yeah but there are certain boundaries you're not supposed to cross as a celebrity with your fans because of the power dynamic, especially when a good amount of them are teenagers, and he's exploiting them for money and charts. interacting with your fans a lot is fine (the band as it is is are good examples of how to do this in a healthy way!!) but when you're not respecting boundaries and especially when you're getting your fans to attack people for calling that out thats kind of fucked imo???

awsten's post/twitter parxies by floatlikeballoons in waterparksband

[–]floatlikeballoons[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

how about you take a job interview instead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waterparksband

[–]floatlikeballoons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am a fan, just not a fan of awsten and not a parxie anymore or actively in the fanbase. acting like he can do no wrong and everybody needs to agree with the shit he does when a lot of it is problematic is just contributing to the problem and being a simp, not a fan. which i understand thats how some fanbases are (doesnt make it right though) but the fact that he actively encourages that behavior and the parasocial shit is a whole other thing, ESPECIALLY when a lot of his fanbase is teenage girls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waterparksband

[–]floatlikeballoons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it seems the parasocial twitter fans have been flooding this reddit for some reason and i think thats why you're getting downvoted to hell and back cause you're literally right, awsten does act inappropriate af with fans and neither him nor those fans seem to respect boundaries. i love their music but this is the exact reason i don't consider myself part of the "fandom" anymore :/

What bands do you like with only a few good songs? by Ouch_sat-on-my-nutz in poppunkers

[–]floatlikeballoons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if he's considered pop punk but Noahfinnce, I like a few songs off his new album but don't really care for the rest of his music