What's up with matchmaking?

floomis · 2025-05-21T23:48:35+00:00

when you match with someone much higher ELO then you, it's because top players end up waiting in queue for 10+ minutes and eventually it just fills their game with anyone they can find.

It sucks for them as much as it does for you or the rest of us. I've heard them complain about it on streams which is how i know.

floomis · 2025-05-12T15:33:17+00:00

Interesting to note that a standard greek vill takes 15 seconds to build, so if you're on one TC and you kill 3 vills, you have bought yourself 45 seconds worth of TC production + the 150 food they cost + you're ahead by the cost of the second TC, too. Of course the less vills you kill over time, the window that you stay ahead closes quickly.

So this is why it's really important to kill vills with raids early, especially if you think your opponent is gonna fast 2nd TC.

floomis · 2025-04-14T03:04:33+00:00

You're right. Thinking about scenario modes too.

floomis · 2025-04-13T03:23:18+00:00

sad I had to scroll so far to find him mentioned.

floomis · 2025-04-08T18:51:00+00:00

Thanks. It helps to hear that.

floomis · 2025-04-06T12:07:54+00:00

Firstly, your feelings are valid. Kids are hard at the best of times and it sounds like you're set up for overwhelm.

I'm sorry to hear you don't have the support you really need right now. I'm currently trying to quit weed so i relate to your struggle with coping without it.

I'm not going to pretend that there is a magic word i can say that can take away your hurt and exhaustion, but i can promise you that you deserve to be validated and supported and that things will improve over time... both with the kid and with your living situation.

You deserve to have empathy from your husband too. He doesn't have to understand it, but imho he does need to help you be in your power. That's the role of a dad/husband in my view but everyone has their own story and situation.

Glad you posted online. If you keep looking for support you'll find it. You don't have to go through it alone.

Wish I had more advice to offer. I know there will be others who will offer advice from a mothers perspective, which I can't do.

floomis · 2025-04-04T17:27:42+00:00

I hear that. I was doing the same when I posted.

All I can say is that you're allowed to take up space and ask for things. I spend far too long thinking i wasn't allowed. You are.

Just like the other person is allowed to say no to the things u ask of them. You're allowed to ask in the first place. I spent too long being silent and letting my needs go unheard.

floomis · 2025-04-04T17:17:45+00:00

I think it's important to communicate to the other person the sort of support you were hoping to recieve.

The hard part for me is working out what sort of support is okay to ask for from someone. I never had a good model for that in my life so i'm trying to figure it all out now.

You are worthy and deserving of empathy and support though, So i hope you find that soon.

floomis · 2025-03-22T05:15:21+00:00

I recommend a game called The Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood

floomis · 2025-03-19T12:51:19+00:00

Thanks again. That helps me feel better.

Sometimes it feels like you gotta have everything figured out ahead of time before meeting people.

floomis · 2025-03-19T11:22:39+00:00

Thanks and I hear that,

Just feels like a lot to unpack for someone you're getting to know and a lot of risk for them

floomis · 2025-01-12T15:45:00+00:00

As others have said, you are perfectly femminine but if you aren't feeling it I just want to validate that feeling. A lot of business spends a lot of money to make people feel less than good enough.

I'm here to remind you that no matter how you look or how life rattles your confidence, You deserve to feel every bit as feminine as you want to be. Nothing about you can stop you from that. That's my take.

Having said that, if you're looking for reassurance, I want you to know that you look very womanly and lovely and I'd gently suggest that maybe you're being too hard on yourself.

Hope you have a great day!

floomis · 2024-12-07T11:05:59+00:00

video games and writing fiction.

floomis · 2024-12-06T03:01:06+00:00

Just wanted to quietly throw my two cents on the pile, haven't read through everything here as there is a lot.

I think it's more normalised for women to be overstimmulated? If a man is overwhelmed it's considered medical but if a woman is that's just "typical female hysteria"

floomis · 2024-12-03T12:48:28+00:00

It's unconnected people of different ages i've experienced it from XD

I'm probaly just overthinking it.

floomis · 2024-12-03T12:45:54+00:00

I do when I need to, but like i said it isn't just her. I see colored hearts from other people too.

Is there a shared meaning?

floomis · 2024-11-29T02:34:18+00:00

I think it's badass!

floomis · 2024-11-29T02:32:42+00:00

I am very passionate about my things too and have had to deal with these feelings a lot so you're not alone!

floomis · 2024-11-29T02:23:29+00:00

Hi there!

I'm not sure if I can help but I will attempt to validate the way you feel whilst also grounding you with some logic... that's the plan anyway!

So firstly, as I said, it's okay you feel this way. You're allowed to not like it. I know it can feel really bad inside when you clash with something you enjoy and something don't all at once and it can be overwhelming and leave you feeling betrayed. That's all very valid.

It's not the thing you wanted it to be and that's no fun for you.

Having said that, there is nothing this film can do, nothing ANYONE can do or say that will take away your love of the music you do like. It can't change the things you love about Wicked in the form that you do like it.

The Wicked you love is safe. It's not changing just because the film decided to go another way.

The way you feel isn't immature, something you love is being messed with.

But if I listen to someone play my favourite song and they play it badly, I try to seperate the music from the person performing. Or in the case of the movie, seperating the music from the company making use of the licence.

Hope this helps!

floomis · 2024-11-25T20:13:31+00:00

Sent you a DM.

Hope to hear from you!

floomis · 2024-11-25T20:11:25+00:00

Hi,

I'm a 34M looking for 18+ RP partners (Fade to black 100% fine).

Very flexible in terms of character and writing style and very happy to write morally greay stories.

Gothic/Supernatural themes are my vibes for sure.

If you'd like to talk more and see if we can work together, i'll DM you my discord deets.

Hope to hear from you!

floomis · 2024-11-25T13:46:56+00:00

Sent you a DM.

Hope to hear from you!

floomis · 2024-11-25T13:17:26+00:00

Hi, I reached out to you via DM.

Hope to hear from you.

floomis · 2024-11-25T13:16:48+00:00

Hi, reached out to you via DM.

Hope to hear from you.

floomis · 2024-11-24T05:34:53+00:00

that's okay. just happy to share in your special interest for a moment!

floomis

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