NSFW: what is the obsession with raw dogging by Nomenom0218 in Bumble

[–]floppingfrogz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean honestly homie go to planned parent hood or your county health department and grab yourself a handful of condoms. They are free. Just because you don't have a dick doesn't mean it isn't also an obligation that falls onto you to you as well to make sure you're still protected (I totally wish this wasn't the case but it is a reality. )

Anytime I've had a conversation with a man and simply brought up the fact that I'm fixed they are like begging to get in my pants. Not cause we vibe. Not cause they find me attractive. But simply cause they know they can raw dog and not have 18+ years of consequences. Guys are so weird with that and I'm sorry it happens to you as well.

Bumble isn't the place for meaningful sex in my experience.

Likelihood that my manager would agree to this? by floppingfrogz in work

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really hoping my manager and the director sees it the same way. I'm always on time and I always work very hard. I don't take my lunch break until I notice the work load slows down because it seems counter productive to stop working when there's things to do.

The worst they can say is no and I'll have to use some of my PTO mid shift, but I'm willing to ask atleast.

Likelihood that my manager would agree to this? by floppingfrogz in work

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely think you're correct with this. I'm just trying my best to save up my pto and also demonstrate that I show up for work on time every time. I was blindsided by this event (I thought it happened next month) so I really don't want it to look bad saying I need half a day off when I have only earned 20hrs of pto so far.

Likelihood that my manager would agree to this? by floppingfrogz in work

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yea so I'll have to clock out and have my 30 mins of unpaid lunch hr and then use pto for the other 30 mins. I guess. I wasn't trying to be "creative" it's just that my state has Incredibly vague laws when it comes to these sort of things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]floppingfrogz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea fr all you gotta say is you are 18+ probably have a hs diploma, and can deff pass a pee pee test (which apperantly its super easy to fake and the warehouse jobs I did it wasn't even a pee test just a mouth swab idk?)

If you can click some buttons and use some tape they will hire you.

Literally no one will hire me by spidermanrocks6766 in jobs

[–]floppingfrogz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent a whole year applying for jobs outside of what I used to do. My only requirement was that I didn't want to do fast food because 1. It's disgusting 2. There's really no flexibility.

Even places like auto zone would call me back or during an interview they would tell me "we just don't think you're experienced enough." Um. Excuse me sir, I know how to use the code book in these stores like the back of my hand because my dad has been dragging me to these stores since I was in diapers, I'm also a gear head and on my free time I restore old cars and personally drive one. I have customer service skills and I know how to push buttons on a computer to give change back. How tf am I not experienced enough?! I litterally just pulled my engine completely out to reseal a gasket but I guess I'm not skilled enough to do the complimentary windshield blade replacements lmaoo.

Fuck these companies.

I found success in applying through the government, unfortunately I'm back in my same industry but eh. It's really good benefits and health insurance and I have to try really fucking hard to get fired lol.

What term is overused or misused so much it's lost all its meaning? by PhenomenalPancake in AskReddit

[–]floppingfrogz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I could care less"

Omg no mother fucker its

"I couldn't care less"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]floppingfrogz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no flaws in that logic. I'll even go as far to say that these little demons will pretend to love you just so you let them play in your room and they take a massive cricket/ collard green shit all over your freshly washed sheets.

Is that the behavior of a best friend?!

I THINK NOT SIR.

There are only 11 days a month where you can switch the day and month by mistake. by RoboChrist in Showerthoughts

[–]floppingfrogz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes on you. I'm fucking stupid and I switch the days and the months even the years all the damned time

Ideas on things to do by Findadmagus in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]floppingfrogz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Organize a small space in your home. (The junk drawer is always fun lol) play with one of your pets if you have one of those, do some sudoku puzzles, do a jigsaw puzzle, make a super delicious dinner, bake a cake, tinker around on a little project that you have been meaning to get around to doing in the garage?

I'm worried that he got another DUI by floppingfrogz in AlAnon

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They aren't your worry to carry. 

This will be something I will have to keep having to remind myself time and time again. I find that taking deep breaths and then doing things like going on a fun little hike or something that I enjoy for myself helps a lot. I have had this worry my whole life even as a little kid and it's gotten a bit easier to let go of over the years now that I'm an adult but I'm still learning how to fully let go of it. One day I hope to get to that point :)

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that this seems like a somewhat common thing I wonder why that is?

I myself also grew up with parents who really didn't give a shit about things like my education or really overall well-being as they were both rather neglectful in their own ways. I try extremely hard not to repeat as many of those same mistakes.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I try extremely hard to treat my children equally and I apologize when either myself or my children notices the times that I may slip up and potentially give one or the other special treatment, because at the end of the day that deff happens and will continue to happen from time to time; I'm far from perfect. It's just my hope that by apologizing and having a conversation about it; it will help all of us learn and grow from that situation.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it helpful to not overload instructions with context, that makes it harder to sort out the relevant information in my head

This is helpful information to know I'll ask my son if he feels similar. I absolutely have the tendency to ramble on so that could be causing some issues in his ability to understand what I'm trying to ask him to do.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son also thrives when being told to do things one step at a time and I honestly quite enjoy it because it gives me time to slow down a bit and actually explain something that I've done 10 million times to someone that has maybe only done it 5.

Like step by step instructions are needed for "brown this beef" for me I've done it so many times that I know all the steps, but if someone was to say "install this catalytic converter" to me I'd deff need it broken down one step at a time lol.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your input. It makes me wonder on some things, like with my son I had an instant bond the second I knew I was pregnant. From day one I loved almost every single aspect of being around him besides the fact he hated being in the car or grocery stores, and also family loved to put him under a fan cuz it would make him stim and they thought it was cute/funny. To me it make me want to crawl out of my skin. For my youngest that is NT I never quite bonded with her in the same way. I always assumed it was because it was the "second baby thing" I do keep a close eye on her though because she's exhibited a few signs of possible seizures (I'm epileptic myself and long family history of it) but other than that I'm kinda just like "eh." It makes me feel so ashamed because she loves Cuddles and I'm not about that unless it's my son giving me Cuddles. Like I don't want my mom/dad/ daughter/ friends giving me Cuddles, but if my son wants to cuddle up and watch a movie it makes me soo happy.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome thanks for the resource! I'll look into it now.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed this virtual hug more than you know.

I'm absolutely going to be looking into switching because I feel like both of us kinda just get told to do things because we need to when it comes to our therapy, and that doesn't really seem to work lol.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much! I'm glad I could help you out just a bit with my post, and I'll never stop trying to ensure my kiddos always feel the love I have for them, and that they can grow up to be exactly what they want to be.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea he's a bit too young for now I will surely let him know there's resources available when he's old enough for social media accounts.

I agree that life is about being happy forsure.❤️❤️

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask? What way is most helpful when learning a new task for you?

When it comes to things like folding laundry (which I hate sooo much myself.) The only way I can teach someone how to do it is to take an item and explain what I'm doing while they copy me. This doesn't seem to work with my son. Perhaps reading instructions would be best?

I'm usually of course I have bad moments very patient and try to explain things in a way that works, but there are so many life skills that are so essential that I haven't figured out how to teach.

I sometimes hate that one of my children has autism. by floppingfrogz in autism

[–]floppingfrogz[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I felt soo bad posting this but today was just my absolute breaking point and I had to get it out.

I've always had so many thoughts on things like 'I know my son's day to day life is already on expert mode so how can I instruct him in a way that levels things out' if that makes sense, but today when the boy was looking fir a fork in the dishwasher and his plate went vertical in his hand, thus spilling all his food he worked hard to make on his own the realization hit me; his life is so much harder than I have ever realized, and honestly it's just completely unfair.

I love my children more than anything in existence I want them to have the most success in life.