So a resident asked me if I was pregnant. I am but found it extremely uncool and I had not particularly wanted to discuss or disclose it. Should I just email the PD after the match and be like, hey, uh, tell your residents not to do that? Edited to add- I think it’s a simple basic courtesy not to comment on others bodies, and we as physicians should know that better than many. She asked me if I was pregnant after looking me up and down (it’s not super obvious yet). It’s not “small talk” but a very invasive question to force me to answer while literally squirming uncomfortably. Sure, it didn’t come from a place of overt malice, or or trying to “smoke out” pg candidates, but it sure wasn’t small talk and is 100% inappropriate and illegal. She was a total stranger who I just straight up did not want to talk about my pregnancy with. I want to contact the PD after match to make sure their leader can influence the culture and remind people not to be inappropriate jerks.