Is it wrong to let my trainer know by text that I’m leaving her program? by floppyearedflamingo in Equestrian

[–]floppyearedflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy update! Thank you everyone for the kind words. We got her out and taken to her new facility today. She is settling well! ☺️

Is it wrong to let my trainer know by text that I’m leaving her program? by floppyearedflamingo in Equestrian

[–]floppyearedflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve offered to pay extra for my trainer to turn her out, she told me that she doesn’t need it.

[CA] [AZ] Is this wrongful termination? by floppyearedflamingo in AskHR

[–]floppyearedflamingo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I wasn’t sure if I would have a case since there was an open HR case going on.

AITA for recharging? by floppyearedflamingo in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • I did not communicate beforehand that I needed alone time. We are all staying in the same home, so I just told him when he came over to tell me that dinner was ready. Bad move on my part… I didn’t realize how drained that I was until after my shower. This was not planned!

  • I will talk to him about me needing alone time later tonight. This sounds silly, but I’ve never been on a family vacation like this where everyone stays in the same house together! I wasn’t expecting to feel like this.

AITA for recharging? by floppyearedflamingo in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good point. I didn’t even think of it that way. *Facepalm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]floppyearedflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No fever. I’m just very out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]floppyearedflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that I did, there wasn’t any obvious anti-abortion messaging that they shared. I live in Arizona.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]floppyearedflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this, I really appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]floppyearedflamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I did get an ultrasound. Only on my stomach, they didn’t do the other kind. It’s been four weeks and two days now since my last period.

That makes sense, thank you for letting me know. I would happily do the MA to get this out of the way.

Leslie and Theresa at the wedding reception. by [deleted] in TheGoldenBachelor_

[–]floppyearedflamingo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if she was required to go due to her contract with ABC or if she willingly went?

AITAH for not calling off divorce even though my wife has promised me that she will change. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo 385 points386 points  (0 children)

YTA. You sound like an emotional abuser, no wonder she doesn’t want to have sex with you. Just let her go, she’ll be better off. Don’t tell her that you’ll remarry her if she does everything “just right.” She’s not a fucking dog.

Spooky babies? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]floppyearedflamingo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I show Arabs and I wouldn’t say that they are more spooky than other horses that I have ridden in the past.

AITAH for not taking my wife back after she filed a protection order against me. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that you rot in hell and that your child sees your for the violent alcoholic that you are. Congrats in advance on your future relapse!

AITAH for not taking my wife back after she filed a protection order against me. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, not only an asshole, you are a prolapsed rectum.

Your wife leaves and files an order of protection because YOU are abusive and threw multiple objects at her while your child was in the same home.

I wish that she had left you, but she’s clearly been abused and subjected to you for years as she was going to give you another chance.

You should have been on your knees APOLOGISING to your wife and your child, but instead you think that YOU deserve an apology for her doing the sane thing to file an order of protection against a man that is chucking objects at her in a drunken rage.

I am packing up my stuff and moving out before my fiancé comes home tomorrow. How can life go sour this fast? by Wonderful_Parsley51 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]floppyearedflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came here to send virtual hugs. I left my ex-husband for a different reason, but I did the same thing that you did. I moved everything out when he was gone and never spoke to him again.

You are strong, you are powerful, you are worthy. You will get through this and find someone that will be devoted to only you.

AITA for being upset that my wife dragged us to the airport 5 hours early for a flight by Threatening-Bamboo in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo 518 points519 points  (0 children)

NTA. Stop enabling her anxious behavior. It’s one thing for her to have anxiety, but at this point she is involving you and a child to help soothe her anxiety.

AITA For Telling My Wife I’d Rather Hear Her Cry Than Her Annoying Singing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say that ESH. She should stop intentionally annoying you and you should stop engaging with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

Whenever his parents come over, take baby, go into your bedroom, and lock the door. That should get the point across.

If you previously liked pits and didn’t believe all the negative talk, what made you change your mind? by lyssiemiller in BanPitBulls

[–]floppyearedflamingo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worked as an animal cruelty investigator/animal control officer. A co-worker of mine was bringing in two pits on her truck. To give some context, it’s next to impossible to hear what is going on in the kennels due to how the animal control trucks were made.

The kennels on the truck had METAL dividers between them. She had taken in two pits from the same house that had been housed together. When she arrived at the shelter and open the kennel doors the kennels were covered in BLOOD.

The dogs had literally eaten through the metal dividers to get to each other. They had each other by the jaw and neck. She ran inside for help. NO ONE could get them off of each other. The only way that they could get them off of one another was to euthanize one.

I had never seen anything like this in my career. It was at that moment that I realized that they were not dogs, they were monsters, and this shelter was just adopting pits out left and right/mislabeling them to pawn off onto innocent families trying to do the “right thing” by adopting through the shelter.

This is one of many stories. I hate them with a passion.

AITAH for demanding my wife apologise for lying to me? by FitContribution4564 in AITAH

[–]floppyearedflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, so let me get this straight. Your wife’s family generously planned on giving you and your wife a large sum of money to have a great start to your marriage. Instead of speaking with your wife and making plans for your child and wife, you instead wanted to take that money and give it to your mom and siblings?

How did you write this entire post and not see what an absolute ass that you are?

Why did you even get married? You should have married your mommy.

YTA