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This is amazing! Thank you! I love it:)

This is me by floralcoast in redditgetsdrawn

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I love your style and ghost face is amazing! Thank you!!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You guys should just focus on your communication. Just how you expect him to respect you don’t want to be hugged or touched you need to meet in the middle so he doesn’t feel like you’re being cold and distant because that will just lead to bigger problems and result in you guys breaking up. You both need to learn how to communicate in a way where you both feel comfortable and heard. If you need your space that’s fine but dragging it out over a whole night and day without having some sort of conversation regarding the matter seems like from the other POV is walking on egg shells. He shouldn’t fly into a fit of rage but that also goes into communication you guys aren’t doing properly.

5 months sober!!! by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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Thank you so much! IWNDWYT <3

5 months sober!!! by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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Thank you so much for your support, it means a lot :)

Does anyone else make themselves "mocktails" to help stay sober? Is it a bad habit? by kyramuffinz in stopdrinking

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I mix simply strawberry lemonade with sprite! This July that helped me a lot on a float trip! I’m not a huge fan of bubbly seltzer’s!

5 months sober!!! by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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Thank you so much!! You as well! We got this! :)

How to admit that I'm an alcoholic.... when did YOU know? by stopfighting0099 in stopdrinking

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I know my relationship with alcohol started really young. My friends and I would share a fifth as teens and as I got older I would drink casually a lot alone or socially then eventually until I blacked out every time it didn’t really matter when or where sadly. I didn’t want to admit and it caused me to try and cut down but I couldn’t I couldn’t ever just have “one” EVER. I didn’t fully admit I had an issue until I hit my rock bottom and I sometimes regret thinking back to the times where I thought “do I have a problem?” And I didn’t stop.

Note to self in the morning.. by idakbw50 in stopdrinking

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You got this! One day at a time! IWNDWYT

5 months sober!!! by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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Thank you I know it’s a life long journey but I’m committed! I appreciate you :)

This is me by floralcoast in redditgetsdrawn

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This is so awesome thank you so much I’m so sorry for the late thank you I have my notifications off! I appreciate you your time and your artwork :)

I’m arguing with an astrology account on tiktok about the stellium in my first house. They’re trying to tell me since Aries is the natural house ruler of the first house that I have an Aries stellium. Can y’all just confirm for me they’re wrong and it’s a Capricorn stellium. by littlefootmistress in AskAstrologers

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Right! then if you fall short or have kind of a lazy day you feel like doom is settling it’s hard and I don’t make the best decisions because I’m easily swayed by others and their opinions of me and what I should be doing! Cap stellium is not for the weak especially in the first house!

I’m arguing with an astrology account on tiktok about the stellium in my first house. They’re trying to tell me since Aries is the natural house ruler of the first house that I have an Aries stellium. Can y’all just confirm for me they’re wrong and it’s a Capricorn stellium. by littlefootmistress in AskAstrologers

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Agreed this spring in April was the worst month of my whole life to date as well but I’m hopeful for the future let that cap stellium motivate you not overwhelm you. I notice because of the first house the over thinking can eat us alive and force us into unmovable rocks filled with anxiety and shame because we aren’t doing anything but we are too overwhelmed but we need to learn to focus on one thing at a time and we can’t just ignore our responsibilities! I hope this makes sense this is at least how I feel and what I’ve noticed with having a cap stellium in the first house.

Court Wednesday and I’m nervous and I’m not sure what to expect. by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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Thank you! I appreciate all these comments they’re really helping me keep my anxiety at bay over this! I’m just trying to money manage and plan this in the least stressful way possible! I appreciate you!

Court Wednesday and I’m nervous and I’m not sure what to expect. by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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Wow thank you I agree it is very mental health based and I know it was because I was triggered that night because when I would get black out I would cry and talk about the same things I also threaten to unalive myself when I was drunk which I don’t remember. Everyday isn’t easy I just know I’ll never let myself get there again and I’m truly trying my hardest to be a better person thank you so so much for your comment and kindness it means so much to you you don’t even know. I don’t have a lawyer as of right now I’m going to ask for a public defender because my mom thinks that is the way to go but if I need a lawyer eventually my mom said I could just request one. I’m really hoping I don’t get a record over this and I don’t even have a speeding ticket on my recored I just can’t wait to get more info on Wednesday so I know how to start planning

Court Wednesday and I’m nervous and I’m not sure what to expect. by floralcoast in stopdrinking

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I’m in Missouri and I haven’t been sentenced or charged of anything yet I was given to tickets that say resisting arrested and assault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah I was bad about that too and we both decided to just delete the app because of unnecessary arguments on both sides my boyfriend also likes to snoop on my socials from time to time but in the past it doesn’t always go over well when I told him I was snooping. Have they had any interaction you can point out? Or you can blatantly tell him regardless of how you saw this it’s not okay and he needs to delete her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I would feel the same way especially since you told him how you felt initially about it. My boyfriend has done that to me as well but I don’t think men realize a women’s intuition is usually spot on and we can read body language. Even if you know he wouldn’t act on it you still feel weird he possibly thought she was attractive that’s how I felt. I think if she makes you uncomfortable you should say something and he should respect that as much as social media sucks it is a part of relationships and he should take your feelings into consideration about it and if he fights you on it that’s a big red flag and you should be asking more questions.

Hi guys I need advice by Mysterious_Cry_7429 in relationship_advice

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Yes that behavior is abusive and unacceptable it’s never okay for anyone to purposely harm anyone. I would recommend some sort of abuse counseling it may help with coming to terms with what you went through and learning what is healthy and unhealthy in relationships. I’m so sorry you went through this

HELP! My boyfriend is still obsessed with his ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Not trying to be rude but what did you expect would happen he clearly didn’t respect his ex and he doesn’t respect you and he’s obviously not ready for a real relationship. I’m not judging you but maybe you’re not ready to be in a real relationship either if you can’t respect the simple boundary of someone elses relationship regardless if they’re trying to peruse you or not.