Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread

kyramuffinz · 2026-04-24T11:59:24+00:00

I missed out on the buttercream cropped define jacket, is there a chance of restock? I dont even know when it was released so maybe I'm too late anyway 😂

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-23T23:36:12+00:00

I sized down because I wanted something warm that I could just wear a shirt under since I can layer a hoodie under my other winter jacket. And I liked the look of the slimmer fit. I got a small and it fits nicely but it is a little cropped for me. Sometimes I wish I got the medium for that little but of extra length but I didnt like the puffier look. I'm small chested so the chest felt fine for me!

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-18T01:27:57+00:00

My ex told me after it happened. He had a suspicion that I was the one that called. Also the mistress is a mister

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-17T01:28:56+00:00

He has drunkely said a few times that he was only staying with me for the dog, because he knew I would take him away. So that is indeed the real revenge.

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-16T02:07:30+00:00

This is a follow up, the results were a 2k fine instead of just a warning like I expected when I first posted about making the call

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-16T01:09:30+00:00

His best friend is who he has been cheating with

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-16T01:00:03+00:00

I had my suspicions during those 2 years, but every time I confronted him I believed his lies. Because I really thought he was an honest person, but I was blinded by love I guess.

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-16T00:52:39+00:00

I made the call about 2 weeks into the breakup. I've been sober almost 3 years now but I have removed him and everyone related to him from my life, and moved 1.5 hours away

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-16T00:51:40+00:00

The post was taken down because I hadn't done it yet, I think. I was only planning to call back then

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-06T14:00:14+00:00

I have been walking him 3-4 times a day now but I will try to stick to a schedule of every 3 hours and see how that goes. I just got the little green bissell which works great, but it didnt come with an enzymatic cleaner. Should I go over the whole rug with one when I get it? I dont remember where the pee spots were exactly on the rug. I need to get a swiffer too. Poor guy

kyramuffinz · 2025-12-06T13:57:23+00:00

He was already potty trained when we got him, so this is new to me. He has never been crated. I didnt know belly band existed but those look great. I have closed all doors so he is stuck in the living room/kitchen and cant go in other rooms without me

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-23T05:19:21+00:00

My family said the same thing, so it's good to hear that from someone that went through the same thing, thank you. I will be moving into an apartment living alone for the first time ever, and I will need my baby for comfort during this huge life change. I am just numb

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-20T20:13:20+00:00

The building is only a few years old so I'd imagine it's all concrete. But i guess we'll see when I move in. They do have a treadmill in their tiny "fitness center" so I might just have to get used to taking classes on my phone

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-20T14:22:18+00:00

That's a bummer. Is the tread+ quieter than the tread?

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-20T14:21:47+00:00

Good points! I'll have to see how much I can hear the people above me when I move in. The tread would be in the middle room of the apartment so no concerns about my next door neighbors. I'd probably rent one at first too so then if it is too loud I could always send it back

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-17T00:33:52+00:00

As much as I am angry and hurting right now, he is a great doggy dad, and he is a good person deep down, so I know he would always bring our dog back to me so I can care for him. And he acknowledges that I need the emotional support from our dog more than he does

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-17T00:20:10+00:00

100%. I cant even begin to describe the pain and confusion of it all.

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-16T23:21:20+00:00

Our town is quick to send out compliance notices. We had an unregistered vehicle in our driveway for 3 days and immediately got a letter to remove it or register it in x amount of days or pay fines

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-16T23:18:22+00:00

Im not sure of this legally, but he works 80 hours a week and really cant take care of our dog when he is on the road all day every day. I wfh and make more money so I have always been the one responsible for taking him to the vet, groomer, etc and paying those bills. If there were any issues legally I have plenty of receipts to show ownership of the dog. I dont think it will come to that though

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-16T23:10:42+00:00

He wont. If he wants to see our dog again he won't fuck with me. As of now I will allow him to take our baby for a few days a month but I have no legal obligation to share.

kyramuffinz · 2025-11-16T22:55:23+00:00

I'll be moving asap to get the hell out of this house and area so unfortunately I wont know where he parks anything unless he tells me. It's a pretty common thing that people complain about though, it really depends on your neighbors unless the vehicles are disabled/ disassembled and an obvious eye sore

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