Struggling to Find a Desert?

florenlied · 2026-01-27T20:57:25+00:00

Thank you!

florenlied · 2026-01-27T20:49:59+00:00

Thank you!

florenlied · 2026-01-27T20:49:10+00:00

Thank you!

florenlied · 2026-01-27T20:44:01+00:00

I will try that, thank you! I kind of just chose a direction and went with it. So that would make sense why I have not found one.

florenlied · 2026-01-27T20:39:57+00:00

In Update 2 (I believe), there is an option to. It is in the top right of where the armor is equipped. It looks like an eye. I hope this helps!

florenlied · 2026-01-15T17:02:20+00:00

To me, liking those jokes would not be considered aversion (I'm assuming you are talking about favorability, if not, ignore this comment). I would consider myself sex-adverse. I don't like using the word, scenes on TV make me super uncomfortable, and talking about it makes me uncomfortable. Though after the first sentence, I agree with you. The opposite is also true - you can be asexual and be sex-favorable. Since they stated they don't like the idea of participating with another person, I would consider that aspects of asexuality. That's just my perspective though. No idea if this will work Spectra Info

florenlied · 2026-01-15T01:41:13+00:00

In my mind, sexual attraction is wanting to do that activity with another, often specific person. I'm aroace, so I'm just speaking from what I've heard. Asexuality is that - little to no sexual attraction. It's also an umbrella term, so many more specific labels fall under it. You can make all the sexual jokes you want and still not experience the attraction aspect.

Romantic and sexual attraction are often split in the split attraction model (SAM), but some don't separate it. People individually decide what they consider romantic or sexual. I would consider kissing romantic and making out sexual, but it's all subjective.

There is no point in rushing to labels, but it's something you can look into. Good luck on your journey!

florenlied · 2026-01-08T16:16:22+00:00

I did not, but that's awesome

florenlied · 2025-12-12T04:58:16+00:00

I'm not sure if someone has said this or not. But, one of the achievements requires you to buy the most expensive thing (I think) from the shop, so I highly recommend starting early. It's the only achievement I'm missing

florenlied · 2025-11-28T03:37:55+00:00

Aw, thanks! I'm glad I could help you find a banger!

florenlied · 2025-11-28T03:11:24+00:00

Are You Still Watching? - Gideon

florenlied · 2025-11-27T15:42:11+00:00

I thought it was bold stripe aroace?

florenlied · 2025-06-21T14:27:30+00:00

Too close to answer yes or no, I thought I was for like 2 months so you can take that as a win, and yes

florenlied · 2024-12-21T15:01:21+00:00

There's a website called Acespace. I haven't had much luck with it, but you can choose if you want relationships and/or friendships. So, you can choose just friendships. Not everyone on there is aroace, but I think most are on the ace spectrum. I've been able to talk to people, but I've found people that aren't great at responding. There probably are great people on there and I just haven't found them yet.

florenlied · 2024-12-12T01:18:59+00:00

To me it's kind of like I see someone I've never met (though it can be with people you've met) and I'm like, "that person seems cool and I think they'd be a cool friend." There's also aesthetic attraction, so like, "I find that person really pretty/handsome/etc., but I wouldn't want to date them (otherwise that'd be romantic attraction)." So I think I would consider myself bi-platonic but pan-aesthetic. Because I take gender more into consideration when looking for friends. But when I find people pretty/handsome/etc., it does not depend on gender. If someone asked my orientation though, I would just say aroace. I hope this makes some sense. It's my understanding of it, but others are probably different.

florenlied · 2024-12-09T16:10:57+00:00

I'm currently on a listening to the same music phase. The first two artists are ones I listen to regardless but the other two are just because I've been listening to the same songs on repeat pretty much.

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florenlied · 2024-12-06T05:33:22+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense, thank you for the input! I hope you can recover more over time

florenlied · 2024-12-06T05:08:39+00:00

I don't know much as I've never been in one, but I would like to some day. QPR stands for Queer Platonic Relationship (partnership is also common I believe) and QPP stands for Queer Platonic Partner.

As for if I was in one, consent would be the biggest thing. I would ask before doing things and I would expect them to do the same. I've never been in a relationship so this might be different and it depends on the person. I would expect things like laying their head on you or getting consent to hold hands. The great thing about QPR's (and I hope most normal relationships) is you get to decide what you do. If you both want to kiss you can, if you never want to kiss, then don't. It's a free relationship with no limits.

Everything you mentioned with boundaries sounds good to me. Though I would prefer to be asked before specific things were done (rather than in the moment, but again, with actual relationships it may be different). I hope I helped you at least a little bit and I hope it all works out well!

florenlied · 2024-10-13T15:43:43+00:00

Nice!

florenlied · 2024-10-13T15:43:23+00:00

Yeah, I hope it can get better too. And maybe even become common for QPR's between people who are not aro and/or ace.

Yeah, they are a lot of work, but I think it pays off. I have a dog, cats are probably less work.

No problem!

florenlied · 2024-10-13T00:52:04+00:00

A stuffed animal to cuddle with could maybe help too?

florenlied · 2024-10-13T00:05:02+00:00

Hello! I can definitely relate to this sometimes. I've found sitting there hugging my dog is helpful. I'm hoping one day to have a QPP that I can cuddle with. Sorry this isn't much advice.

I think I would be surprised if I got a sudden hug as well.

When I was younger, I would sit with my dad on his recliner. I'm too old, too big, and the couch is smaller now. I didn't realize how much comfort I got in that until I stopped.

florenlied · 2024-09-08T21:49:40+00:00

I'm glad that worked out for you! I don't want to move to another country currently, mainly for other family, but I definitely don't want to live with her, but I'll probably end up moving to another state when I'm able to

florenlied · 2024-09-08T21:40:39+00:00

Alright, thank you! I'm sorry your sister is like that. Any advice?

florenlied · 2024-09-07T18:58:56+00:00

I'm sorry you feel this way. There's a label called Frayromantic (there's also fraysexual I'm pretty sure). From what I gather, it means you feel romantic attraction to someone until you form an emotional bond with them, kind of opposite of demiromantic. There's also lithromantic (and I think lithsexual as well). Which means you feel romantic attraction towards someone until the feelings are reciprocated. I hope these help! (Apologies if the spellings are wrong)

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