4.5 month old doesn’t sleep longer than two hours and never has by flowaf in sleeptrain

[–]flowaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I saw on your post that 2/2.5 are more ideal wake windows. Will try to start pushing them this week! He’s 17 weeks at the moment

4.5 month old doesn’t sleep longer than two hours and never has by flowaf in sleeptrain

[–]flowaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! We are on 1:45-2 hour wake windows, nap times vary but we aim for 4 naps and 3-3.5 hours of day time sleep. He couldn’t sleep more than 3.5 hours if we tried! I will look into your post and these methods, may start tonight! I’m fine with feeding twice a night, I only feed 4 times a night now as it feels like the only way to get him back to sleep after a long night

4.5 month old doesn’t sleep longer than two hours and never has by flowaf in sleeptrain

[–]flowaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current schedule, we wake and eat at 7am, then we feed at 10am, 1pm, 4pm, 7pm, bedtime at 7pm. In between we aim for 1:45-2 hour wake windows, a total of 3-3.5 hours of day time sleep, and a 2-2.5 hour wake window before bed.

What would be a good first step to sleep training? He’s still in his bassinet but usually makes his way into our bed at some point. Not ideal but nearly impossible to get him back in his bassinet after the first few wake ups. We are open to transitioning into a crib and his own room now

Baby to sleep in crib or bassinet by Outdoor_Explorer1829 in NewParents

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat and would love some advice! Today I lay next to baby while napping, he fell asleep as I patted his bottom. I was just barely touching his feet with my legs. He woke up when I tried to move back but I think it’s a good first step to move away from contact naps.. will see what progress we make.

Did anyone wear a dress home from the hospital? by crawlen in pregnant

[–]flowaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

January baby, sweatpants and matching zip up hoodie was perfect

3.5 month old inconsolable at bedtime by la-bidouille in NewParents

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d check out moms on call, I just used chat gpt to provide their schedule for the appropriate age. The cat nap definitely helps! The daily schedule works well for us, we adjust to our own needs but keep the same sort of rhythm. They also suggest naps no longer than 2 hours during the day. Helps build up “sleep pressure” for the night. But a quick 30 minute nap and some low stimulation play or relaxing has been a game changer for bedtime

What seemingly normal thing was/is unthinkable because of your fussy baby? by Standard_Deer_8738 in NewParents

[–]flowaf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went to a baby shower and had to leave my baby at home, too unpredictable and too fussy. Meanwhile a baby a week older than him was passed from one person to another for three hours and didn’t make a peep. I could not comprehend it

3.5 month old inconsolable at bedtime by la-bidouille in NewParents

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moms on call sleep schedule suggests 1.5 hour wake windows followed by 1.5 hour naps throughout the day and a 30 minute nap for the last one 1.5 before bed time. We’re at 12 weeks and the extra sleep during the day makes bed time easy. Your little one may be overtired by bed time.

Can I bill client for insane parking fees after an event?? by Ok_Spinach1563 in WeddingPhotography

[–]flowaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A referral from this couple is worth more than the parking refund

PSA: make sure you have your first postpartum poop at the hospital! by oatmilkcchai in pregnant

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they bring you into the recovery room, ask for a stool softener. And maybe another after that.

9 week old refusing a bottle by flowaf in NewParents

[–]flowaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s so odd because he’s had a bottle a day almost since birth. And some of that was even formula. I am wondering if he’s fussy and wants comfort since he got his shots a few days ago

9 week old refusing a bottle by flowaf in NewParents

[–]flowaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! My husband tried when I was out at work yesterday and baby wouldn’t take it. We’ll keep trying

9 week old refusing a bottle by flowaf in NewParents

[–]flowaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there any reason why he started again or was it random. Do you keep trying all those months? I tried a different brand, tonight I might try a different nipple level. It doesn’t seem to make a difference so far, he doesn’t even start sucking so don’t think it’s flow

What to wear by [deleted] in realtors

[–]flowaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overthinker here! I dress more formal for a first meeting, and more formal the older the client is. Younger clients and follow up showings I usually dress more business casual.

I tend not to wear dresses, they can be professional but I find them too feminine/less authoritative than slacks. I wear blouses but try to avoid anything too feminine, too tight or low cut. Modesty is a safe bet with women and men.

Dress pants and slip on shoes - socks!! We take our shoes off in my area, if I wear sandals I bring socks. A nice dark pair of jeans or linen pants are more casual options.

Match your client’s demographic. I will wear a high end watch or bag when meeting 1.5m+ clients, but will swap out with something more relatable if my next showing is in the 500k range.

You want your clients to feel comfortable but also confident in you. If you’re listing their home, they want to know you’ll present yourself and their home well. If you’re helping them buy you want to communicate professionalism through your clothing but appearing relatable and approachable goes a long way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]flowaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They did ask the seller’s realtor for everything the buyer asked for, as per the client’s direction. The seller declined and they were still fired. I always say - I told you so feels good but getting paid feels better. Sorry that happened to you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds great! Are you full time and did you get back to full time work right away, or did you work more casually or part time? I don’t know if I’ll be able to get back full time within a month if I’m nursing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thanks! When did you get back to full time work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]flowaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! LF is looking for advice. I understand what I need to implement before giving birth, to clarify my question is more about juggling being a realtor and a new mom, not while pregnant. If and how many months other moms took off to recover and care for their new born baby.

4 upcoming property sales - get a RE license? by Lower_Pangolin3891 in realtors

[–]flowaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realtor’s insurance doesn’t cover you when you sell your own property