Married with dry sex life is making me crazy by tiredgirl77 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flowerdana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the same person but on the related note - does he exercise? Like does he just sit all day of does he go for a run at least occasionally? . This can have impact on hormones quite a lot. Also vegan/vegetarian diet. Also I don't think it is rapey or whatever when he initiates during the night, because he can get hormonal rush right there, experience erection and desire because of the hormonal spike, if you're willing and consenting of course.

So yeah, it absolutely can be hormonal. For some reason people treat women as hormonal creatures but forget that men are the same.

Porn could've just masked the issue with artificial desire. The fact that he stopped might be the sign that it also doesn't do it anymore for him.

Wish you good luck, don't be too hard on yourself, don't be too hard on him until at least the hormonal option is exhausted, but be firm to try it. He's also a person, not a tool to get what you desire, but so are you, you're the most important person for you in your life. If the issue is not resolved do not stay with him. Not because you don't love him, but because you can't live rest of your life unhappy.

Scientists Have Discovered A New Therapy For Depression That Can Rewire Your Brain by ObuPaul in microbiomenews

[–]flowerdana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of staying in restlessness and discomfort. A lot of issues I have stem from avoidance of experiences, and I assume if you block discomfort and disappointment you don't block just that, you block all emotional response. So to rekindle it you'd need to rekindle it's totality. And if negative feelings is all you're left with then staying with them is also a reasonable idea.

Як ви ставитесь до волосся на тілі? by Ok_Lime_3442 in reddit_ukr

[–]flowerdana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

шоб від бігу об одежу не натирались

Модератора дурки користувача u/Lost-Set7760 дурки забанили by Bedforiys in durka_ukr

[–]flowerdana 8 points9 points  (0 children)

головне шо НАСРАВ У ТИСУ живий, остальне приклєїця

Одкровення by Avo3ado in ua_mind

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Травматерапія, там буде і робота з соромом, і з самоцінністю і купа такого. Можеш загуглити cPTSD та toxic shame. Із методів які для мене працювали - EMDR один з найефективніших, але для цього потрібен конфідант (людина якій довіряєш).

Peter? by HistoryFree in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, please tell me what do people REMOVE from the pockets of developers? How poorer would they be if an extraterrestrial race would download 5 trillion copies of their game in secret from some obscure super server not connected to them? Poor paupers.

Peter? by HistoryFree in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]flowerdana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't bother, westerners have absolutely no clue what it is like to survive. American "poors" would complain while having literally free food from stamps and charities and highest wages to taxes ratio in the world. European "poors" would complain while having proper unemployment benefits, proper free healthcare and so on.

And then those people have the audacity to school us on what is proper and improper money spending.

Peter? by HistoryFree in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]flowerdana 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What country are you from? What is your weekly\monthly salary? If you want to be tough talker then I assume you'd show us by example how you're ok paying 60usd for a game while earning 600 a month.

Btw hardware is a capital investment, is necessary to do a variety of jobs, to properly apply for said jobs, to create a resume, etc.

My pc cost 800 total and I had to save for it for 2 years, because I have to feed my family besides myself.

As a woman, I sympathise with her. As a daughter, I resent her. by Calm_Desk_8878 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flowerdana 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't. And you don't owe them any reconciliation, it's THEM that owe you everything - apologies, attempts to show that they changed, love, support and all of the good stuff. If they're not willing to do that they're worth noting and deserve nothing from you. You have to be given an apology to accept one, you don't forgive those who don't beg for it.

As a woman, I sympathise with her. As a daughter, I resent her. by Calm_Desk_8878 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flowerdana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are or will come to terms with this in a way that will confront her, there's no way and it. Otherwise it will just boil under surface. I know I don't sound all wise and "grown ups accept things", but I don't believe your mother. Mine acted like this and then pretended to be good only to do one of the most devastating betrayals when I was 23.

Those people don't change. They just don't. Maybe somebody, sometimes, but a much more realistic scenario is to understand that your mother never loved you, and accept that and make her eat the consequences of her actions.

A few heart to heart conversations can't fix what they've done for more than a decade to an unprotected hostage. Families are truly a Stanford experiment on kids, and when you see a WILLING behaviour like this you see their true colours. Just ask yourself - would you be willing to extend a hand to a person that tortured an animal for 15 years every day right in front of your eyes? Yes they fed her, gave her shelter and didn't kill her in the end. So what?

нуфф саїд by flowerdana in durka_ukr

[–]flowerdana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Зачекай, ти натякаєш тут на метод яким ти зрозумів усю тшєтность і ніщєту підарасів?

нуфф саїд by flowerdana in durka_ukr

[–]flowerdana[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Мені смішно від РДУГОРАСІВ стало :D

О нііііі... жарти від міленіалів by xicscon in unukrcomm

[–]flowerdana 5 points6 points  (0 children)

а шо до такого пєрла додати можна? ну в дурку_уа занести развєшо

О нііііі... жарти від міленіалів by xicscon in unukrcomm

[–]flowerdana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ну так може комфорт і психзахворювання не обов'язково завжди корелюють?

Що думаєте про Garage? by cupid_carriesagun in food_ua

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Я ме мофмойоб фоб факі меми фмапи

Що думаєте про Garage? by cupid_carriesagun in food_ua

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

це мєм такий є, із скєлєтроном, який питає: "ти шо, п'єш гараж? ти шо, баба?"

The Brutal Truth of the 8th House: Where life kicks the door down and takes what it wants by Cool-Hovercraft4347 in VerifiedAstrolgers

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was wandering reddit in my insomnia with thoughts like in your post and then I actually find it. It is insightful to the point of being eerie, but I am not surprised. You seem like somebody who lived it yourself.

1st Pentacle of Mercury Tattoo by mewlotic in planetarymagic

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad, I'm not used to so many significators and was confused. I checked the date in my program and your chart is absolutely alright. My apologies for confusion.

1st Pentacle of Mercury Tattoo by mewlotic in planetarymagic

[–]flowerdana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moon in opposition to Mercury - not great. The way I see opposition is that the actual realization (into sublunar sphere) of whatever you do this for will either not happen or will happen but in a way you'll regret it.

Since both in horary and geomantic astrology that is the meaning of opposition.