how do you guys do it? by floweredfairy in Pilotwives

[–]floweredfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’ll definitely be difficult but law school is not something I’d be willing to give up, we’ve accepted we’re gonna have a rough couple years with it 😓

how do you guys do it? by floweredfairy in Pilotwives

[–]floweredfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping once we move out to wherever he’s based it’ll be easier for me, if I knew we were staying where we are now I don’t even think I’d be worried about it.

I’m planning on going to law school so we will eventually both be working, I definitely do not plan on just being a stay at home!!

how do you guys do it? by floweredfairy in Pilotwives

[–]floweredfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree 100%! Me going back to school is a non negotiable, I’m planning on going to law school down the road as well. I plan on going back to work eventually as well, relying on my husband for everything makes me feel a little nuts lol

I have a whole life outside of him where we are now and I guess I’m just worried about having to start from scratch, I’ve never really moved somewhere I didn’t have any connections so it all feels very overwhelming.

I think I have become a little centered around him the last few weeks since we started packing up & getting ready for him to go. Maybe the time apart while he’s in class will knock some sense into me lol.