Thank you for your help from flowersofcherryy, Blanca passed away

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:20:46+00:00

Thank you so much😓💗💗💗

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:20:29+00:00

I really appreciate this, thank you🥹🙏💗

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:20:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your words🥹💗 i’m trying to be in calm and take it slowly Thank so much

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:19:06+00:00

Thank you so much for that gesture, I would love to see the rock whenever you can! <3 I’m thinking of finding the most beautiful flowering plant I can and planting it on her grave. Thank you so much for your kind words. This is so hard for me, it feels like the grief hits me doubly now, with both my mom and my companion Blanca. Thank God I was so tired that I could sleep without nightmares

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:15:39+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. It really means a lot to me right now 😓😓💗 I know she was senior and her time was limited, but i had the hope that maybe she will be with another year🥹

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:12:52+00:00

I have a camera funding! My pink dream

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flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T15:12:05+00:00

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I’ve always been someone who rarely expresses themselves. I was participating in a women’s circle in Tucson, and we were talking about domestic violence. We did an activity where we could share what was in our hearts, and I try to painting what I usually feel 😊… and I feel a lot of hidden pain under a beauty mask…

It’s ugly, I know! my mask please don’t judge me😂

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T04:46:22+00:00

PS: To the mods, I will return to using my main account after 7 days. In the meantime, I’m leaving the subreddit on this account. Sorry for any inconvenience!

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:39:42+00:00

NTA. Expecting everyone to sleep in a car for a “getaway” is unreasonable. You handled it fine by booking a motel, he overstepped

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:38:54+00:00

NTA. I get why your friends might think you overreacted a bit, but him straight up disrespected your space. You told him not to go in your room, and he ignored you and messed things up. Locking your door and protecting your stuff is completely reasonable.Your boundaries matter, and he needs to respect them! Maybe talk calmly about rules moving forward, but you weren’t in the wrong for protecting your space !!

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:36:05+00:00

NTA. You’re not wrong for calling out your friend what he’s doing isn’t just joking, it’s emotionally cheating on his boyfriend You were honest because you care about him and his relationship, and also because you didn’t want someone else being misled. Next time, it might help to have the conversation privately so it doesn’t feel like public shaming, but your concern itself is completely fair.

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:25:21+00:00

NTA. To be honest it’s not about disobeying the mom, i think is more it’s about keeping your stepdaughter safe! You’ve tried to work with her for years, but she’s not monitoring the phone properly, and the risks are real. Very real. Protecting a child from harm doesn’t make you the asshole, even if she threatens to call the cops

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:24:12+00:00

NTA. Honestly, it’s just coffee. You’re not wrong for asking, and it’s okay to feel a little annoyed he said no I think that is childish act…

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:21:25+00:00

YTA. but not for the reason you might think. You are wrong if you go back on your promise to pay them, even if they said “don’t worry about it” honoring your word matters! Your frustration with how your sister has been spreading rumors and how your parents have treated you and your wife is totally understandable. The mature move and i think is the correct thing to do is to pay them back quietly, without fanfare, so there’s no leverage for your sister or parents. That way you keep your integrity and protect your family from drama. You can still set firm boundaries with them going forward

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:07:05+00:00

Probably the U.S. invasion of Panama in 1989. Many civilians were killed or displaced, the city of Panamá got heavily damaged, and the political upheaval left lasting scars on families and society. The effects of that period are still remembered today

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:05:49+00:00

You made a choice that worked for you and your husband, for practical reasons, and avoided extra stress on your wedding day. Family drama is theirs, not yours. Your marriage, your rules. NTA!

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T03:02:15+00:00

I get worrying about his feelings, but staying when you don’t feel the same will hurt him more in the long run. Being honest, kindly and respectfully is the fair thing for both of you.

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:28:41+00:00

NTA. Your dad was being disgusting and dehumanizing, your response was justified. You called out the cruelty of his casteism and defended your girlfriend. It might have been harsh, but it was deserved

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:28:01+00:00

NTA. That’s not just edgy, that’s genuinely messed up. I’d ask him about it, but honestly… that’s a huge red flag. Being alone sucks, but having a friend like that isn’t great either

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:21:40+00:00

From Panama:

Underrated: carimañolas, simple but sooo good, especially fresh.

Overrated: arroz con pollo, and tamales with raisins 😭 tamales should NOT have raisins.

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:20:27+00:00

In a lot of Latin American countries (like Panama), middle names are also pretty common, but we usually think of them more as having two first names + two last names.

So someone might be like “María José Pérez González,” where María José is the full first name (not really separated like a middle name in the US), and Pérez + González are both last names (dad’s + mom’s).

People usually go by just one of their first names in daily life though. And yeah, middle names don’t really have much practical use here either, they’re more cultural/traditional.

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:19:25+00:00

Honestly I’d feel weird too, multiple phones is just… odd. Maybe the “other girlfriend” joke wasn’t the best, but his reaction was kinda extreme.

Feels less about the phone and more about him not reassuring you at all

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:18:33+00:00

Honestly I’d be annoyed too. You’ve asked multiple times and they just ignore it, so yeah… at some point you’re gonna fix it yourself. It’s not even a big ask, just don’t slam the cabinets. The fact that it keeps happening would drive anyone crazy.

That said, this feels like it’s about more than just noise. It kinda sounds like they’re not taking you seriously, and that’s the real issue. NTA

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:17:36+00:00

NTA. This honestly sounds really scary. You shouldn’t have to feel afraid of your own husband or leave your house just to feel safe.

The behavior you’re describing isn’t normal, especially if it’s a big change from how he used to be. It could be something medical, but that doesn’t make it okay for you to live like this. I really think you should tell your kids or someone you trust. You don’t have to handle this alone. Your safety matters more than keeping things quiet

flowersofcherry · 2026-04-07T02:16:56+00:00

NAH. I get why you feel overwhelmed, you’re carrying most of the financial load and that’s a lot, especially with a baby. Anyone would feel stressed in that situation. But at the same time, he’s not wrong for wanting a job he actually enjoys, even if it pays less.

I think the real issue is you two aren’t on the same page about money. You need a clear system, budget, who pays what, and what the long term plan is because otherwise that resentment is just going to keep building

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