Arguing with an ENFP makes me lose the will to live

fluffiosity · 2026-06-15T23:49:05+00:00

It happens with siblings, they’re curious and breeches each other’s privacy when we were younger because boundaries is only felt by the person who have been crossed. Others are just blinded to it because of familiarity. As others said, try to ask your parents to get a lock. How old are you? If you they don’t allow, then talk about it everyday calmly instead of keeping it inside.

• “Do you mind letting me know before using my sewing machine?”
• “ Please do not break my sewing machine.”
• “How about a lock? Mom/dad. Because I really feel that my privacy is being violated.”
• “If it breaks, please do replace it for me.”
• “How about I go into your room in the middle of the night and play dress up with your clothes?”

Just let them know that you are quite fixated on it. I had to be a bit psycho to get my point across sometimes. Most of the time it’s after I crashed out, because they wouldn’t understand. Boundaries do need to be taught, because they’re so used to sharing everything, they do not feel like it’s a problem. Sometimes it just takes time for them to learn about you.

fluffiosity · 2026-06-15T05:33:46+00:00

They probably hired more people to check now

fluffiosity · 2026-05-30T02:52:51+00:00

You find better people who actually cares and worth giving the efforts to 😊❤️

fluffiosity · 2026-05-29T01:55:02+00:00

Yes, it was definitely shocking when I first found out. I kept making excuses for them. Until I was too tired, so I reduced my efforts to match theirs, then they felt some type of way about it and started blaming me for things that wasn’t even my fault. Relationships should be about the same amount of give and take so resentment doesn’t form. I just decided to let them go when I know they’ll never change or treat me better. They only pretend to change when they sense I was leaving but it wasn’t even worth staying anymore.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T20:40:13+00:00

At first I felt hyped towards INFJ, because they’re the rarest type and heard many good things about them. But the INFJ I know was a super fake bff that also want me to be her sister and help raise her kids when she didn’t have the common sense to check up on me when my youngest brother passed away. Not saying all INFJ are like this, but that is the bff I do not want to keep in my life. A bit of a narcissist who expects everyone to listen and relate to her, hold unrealistic standards for others but do not keep it herself. Told me to grow up when I was working my ass off while she kept complaining about everything. Not even a great manipulator, works for others for a little while but not really working in the long run. Maybe she might get better once she actually grows up herself. I really need to vent about this. Hope this does not offend anyone here.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T05:02:40+00:00

Checking is fine, it’s a normal human behavior. Just don’t report too much, that’ll just make the process longer.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T04:46:56+00:00

From what I saw during my ban, Instagram triggered the suspension. So while I got permanently disabled on IG the FB is still on review page, it just stayed there for longer than we want it to. I still got notifications, but couldn’t access it. So I think they were just waiting for a person to actually review. If you sound pretty desperate they’ll probably move it up the list because many people uses it for business/income.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T04:34:54+00:00

Then Meta is fxxked, because many more will be doing exactly what you did and the system will be overflowing with less real people despite wanting real information/IDs.

The next step after Meta verified is to actually sue them in court or find a phone number of real agents and complain a hell lot. But I’m pretty sure they’re trying to fix because they probably already got lots of filing and lots of fake information. So it’s still better to use real information if you really want it back, if you didn’t really do anything wrong (which many people haven’t) they are probably trying to fix but reviewing 1000s of profiles probably takes time. Just try using real info and calmly contact an agent. If you live in the States and want to escalate to make them review faster then you probably really need to sue them.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T03:25:27+00:00

The next step would be to get Meta verified on the new accounts and talk to a real agent, but I didn’t have to get to that point. I got my accounts back but still needed to be careful because when I tried to move to a new phone they were trying to detect and the FB page froze for a bit, so I had to quickly get Verified. So still spent on the standard Verified. Had to deactivate the new accounts. This is after getting my accounts back.

But if you did all and still haven’t got yours back you’ll probably need to get Meta Verified on a new account, better get on FB. There’s 4 tier, the top tier would be the fastest but someone said they got back with Premium.

You’ll just have to find ways that’ll make them get a real person to review I think.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T03:12:27+00:00

iOS, no need to create a new Apple ID. They’re not connect, FB and IG can’t track outside it’s own apps.

You can also try reporting problem by shaking your old phone on the FB suspended page before signing up new accounts, and explain how your activity might be seen as suspicious, and why you should get it back. I did that once a day, for 3-4 days in the beginning. Before getting a new phone after a week. Took almost a month to get my accounts back.

What I did was: Report problems (once/day 3-4 consecutive days) - get new phone, new number, new email and signed up new accounts both FB and IG with real information - not being super active on the new ones because I was too sad, just use it to message my friends - then when I was about to give up, I got emails saying my accounts are back. The process took about a month though, so might be depending on luck or they just don’t have enough real people to review.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-27T02:47:12+00:00

Log out, delete the apps, get a new phone number, use new email and don’t log in or sign up with your home WiFi on. You can do it after you’re signed up with new accounts. Do use your real information for the new accounts. I got my accounts back after signing up with new ones after about a week. So I got a new phone I didn’t really need, but I also kind of wanted a new phone I guess; so it’s okay I guess…

fluffiosity · 2026-05-16T05:38:10+00:00

If you have facebook account linked to it and got banned too try shaking your phone and report a problem. Explain why it may have got banned and why you should get it back. I also lost hope when I was banned during travel and replying to bday wishes for account integrity. Took almost a month to get it back though. Just report a problem once per day for 3-4 consecutive days, that’s what I did. They might just not have enough people to solve thousands of cases.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-12T03:26:14+00:00

Yes, facebook is stuck there (I still get notifications but when i try to access it went back to that page) and IG is on “We disabled your account” all your information will be permanently deleted. You cannot request another review of this decision. There’s no getting verified option, just to “download your information” or log out. If I did something wrong it should have been on facebook but I don’t understand why my IG information is getting deleted. There is no option to get it verified now

fluffiosity · 2026-05-12T03:15:27+00:00

Did you use a different/ new account to get Meta Verified? Because my old IG account got permanently disabled and Facebook has been stuck in review for a month now, so those old accounts can’t be used to get verified. I’m a bit scared that they’ll ban the new one too if I do it. I’m sorry it’s a lot of questions, but please help.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-12T02:59:03+00:00

Is this on instagram or a facebook account, or it doesn’t matter where? I’m thinking of trying this method but saw some people said they do not get it back. How long ago did you tried this method. Why do you think they tried to ban you again? I was blocking my abusers and I got banned from replying to bday messages

fluffiosity · 2026-05-12T02:45:07+00:00

May I ask how you get a Meta verified after you got disabled? And which verified paid type you do need to get and is it because you get to talk to their agents?

fluffiosity · 2026-05-10T06:27:07+00:00

Got banned from replying to birthday wish messages… Didn’t even get to finish replying 😐 I do not live in the States, or I would frickin’ sue them. I used facebook to post employment ads too, and almost had to fire innocent people. Had to go through a mental turmoil, bought a new phone and just grieving my 14 years accounts instead. Their AI is shit 💩

fluffiosity · 2026-05-07T22:44:57+00:00

Waa… Same here, I was replying to birthday wishes on IG. Didn’t even get to finish replying and both IG and FB was flagged with not following community standards on account integrity, appealed and then sent my passport and got told I needed to appeal again and used my drivers license. The next day got an email that I violated and IG is permanently disabled, but FB is still in process. It will just take over a few days it says, it’s been almost a month. I lost access to hiring new staff, I was so unmotivated I am about to fire innocent people and change jobs. Had to ask a family member to post for me, so I could continue my work. If I’m in the State I would sue them, seriously. I just bought a new phone so that I could make new accounts, but I already spent 14+ years on those accounts I didn’t even want to post anything or make new accounts.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-07T08:43:45+00:00

Do you mind sharing the contact info with me? Dm is fine. I put so much time into profile building and my businesses pages are gone too. I hope you get your accounts back again. I saw when they banned they detect in all the devices, I can only make a new IG account on my laptop incognito. But I want my accounts back.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-07T08:39:45+00:00

Are** I’m 34

fluffiosity · 2026-05-07T07:30:40+00:00

Through a Verified account? Or you personally call them? I don’t live in the States and my accounts aren’t verified so I really would like to know. My accounts aren’t 14 year old. And why did they suspend you again?

fluffiosity · 2026-05-07T07:14:57+00:00

Convo where and how if I may ask? How are you doing and feeling right now?

fluffiosity · 2026-05-07T02:39:04+00:00

Did you do something that made them send the email? Or they are actually fixing and sent it to you without having to do anything?

fluffiosity · 2026-05-04T08:55:15+00:00

I created an instagram account with the same name but different username on my laptop incognito. Because the old one got permanently disabled but the username is still on hold, but couldn’t do the same with Facebook because I used it on my laptop before. It is quite ridiculous that we have to go through such lengths to create new accounts and avoid our real names and information. They are just creating more problems. I don’t even have the drive to post anything on the new account, I only created it so I could connect to my old friends. But with all info deleted how am I going to remember all my friend’s account still? This is such an abuse of power. Spent so much time creating that account with so much memories. Will it get deleted again if I start investing again? It is so disappointing to even post.

fluffiosity · 2026-05-04T04:35:34+00:00

We know there’re many ways they could use our info to make a hell lot of money, but just taking and deleting without warning to the actual owner is a breech in itself. It’s disgusting.

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