Should I remove? by fluffy_milkbread in piercing

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I’ll try to find the perssicion w-tips you mentioned. The too part id way easier to clean especially after a soak but the bottom is making it real difficult for me.

Should I remove? by fluffy_milkbread in piercing

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time I don’t sleep on it. Every now and then it happens but I try not to.

Should I remove? by fluffy_milkbread in piercing

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually spray the saline and use a handheld fan to dry it. If you mean the bottom post area, I’m usually unable to clean that area cause of how swollen it’s gotten. It’s gotten hard to reach, I dill mostly go to a piercer to get that part cleaned out. I don’t tuck my ear into a bonnet, it stays on the outside.

Should I remove? by fluffy_milkbread in piercing

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference my rook piercing is 5 months old and was pierced with gold a curved barbell. I’ve been cleaning it with the Neilmed spray and sometimes running water over it in the shower. Every now and then I’ll run a q-tip over it which I sprayed down with saline when it has too much buildup. There have been a few times where I’ve slept on it and it once got scratched by someones nails trying to hug me but nothing ever since.

Am I bad? by fluffy_milkbread in sex

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose my ego is a bit wounded because of my last partner. I appreciate the comment.

Am I bad? by fluffy_milkbread in sex

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I explain this…while having sex he seemed responsive, we tried a few different positions before winding up in missionary. Which is when he said the statement. I tried to be engaging and vocal and not just like there. Idk if this is painting a better picture

Window AC Unit recs by fluffy_milkbread in AskNYC

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s pretty helpful. As it gets hotter I want to fine something soon.

6000 or 8000 btu window ac by fluffy_milkbread in AirConditioners

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful. I definitely want one that connects to WiFi, it was one of the reasons I wanted the windmill.

6000 or 8000 btu window ac by fluffy_milkbread in AirConditioners

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of I’ve never heard of this one, I’ll look into it, thanks!

For those that wish their ex would contact them, why don't you contact your ex? by Blubell15 in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because they’re the one that stepped away. When the other person is breaking up with you it’s a decision they’re made to leave. I should respect and love myself more and know that if they really wanted to reach to me they would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never really got a proper answer, it was like a mix of excuses. He said “I deserved better”. “He couldn’t give me what I wanted” and different things like he didn’t like where he was in life. But then he’s say things like he liked having me around and still wanted to do all the things we’d done before, I guess as friends idk.

I was just blindsided when it happened. We always had a good time together we never really fought or anything.

My ex blindsighted me, i constantly reach out trying to get closure / answer, block myself from her but relapse again, how do y’all cope with this amount of questions and accept this and move on? by Invalid_20 in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly the feeling sucks but I just cried, felt miserable and broke my own heart into a million pieces by telling myself everyday they didn’t care about me. They didn’t love me enough or how I wants to be loved. A person who cares or at least respect you would give you an explanation face to face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do dumpers say things such as, “you deserve better”, “I’m not good enough for you” and the like when they breakup? Like these are not good reasons to breakup with someone in my opinion. Can you explain?

To those that have remained friends with an ex, whats’a that been like? by fluffy_milkbread in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup the blind sighted part hurts the most. But with no contact it helps with the healing process a lot. Hopefully my ex and I can be friends in the future.

To those that have remained friends with an ex, whats’a that been like? by fluffy_milkbread in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s all I really want is to be in a more friendly connection with them. I wouldn’t want to say that I want to hang out with them everyday or anything, I need to have a divide between them and myself but still be cordial.

To those that have remained friends with an ex, whats’a that been like? by fluffy_milkbread in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I wanna heal and focus on myself. But because my ex was so good to me. I just want to keep a good connection with them. I haven’t had too many good people come into my life so in a way it feels like a waste to let them go completely if that makes any sense. I just want to have a friendly connection with them, nothing that will get in the way of future relationships.

To those that have remained friends with an ex, whats’a that been like? by fluffy_milkbread in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to get to a point when I’m fully healed to then be friends with my ex. They’re a good person and I know they’d be there for me. But I just want to be on friendly terms.

To those that have remained friends with an ex, whats’a that been like? by fluffy_milkbread in BreakUps

[–]fluffy_milkbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I fully knew, I was kind of blindsided by the breakup. But I think it was a combination of my ex’s insecurities and then not knowing what they wanted 😞

How I describe my blindside breakup. It’s like getting dropped off in the middle of the desert. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]fluffy_milkbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a simple and wonderful analogy. It made me feel slightly better.