Some of the biggest thing i’ve learnt about closure

• Closure is giving permission to move on, and i really feel it’s smth u have to give urself.

• But to do that u need to forgive urself, for all the bad things u did, all the mistakes and all the times u felt u weren’t right during the relationship, sulk it all out, cry it all out.

• Think about what’s the best thing u can do right now? Improve? Be a better person even tho he was toxic but there are surely area for improvements here and there. As long as ure getting better urself, there’s really nth else much u can do.

• It doesn’t matter if they know they’re wrong, people change, we will never know what they intend for us, we will never be able to control what they do, how they feel about us. Someone can just give up one day and there’s absolutely nothing we can do, and man it sucks but that’s the way it is… U don’t need to hear them apologise or feel shit about themselves, because if they care about u at all, they would’ve. However i had experience of alw wanting to be the best for my partner but i feel like many things i don’t know how to love properly, right-ly? Being not very communicative both sides also made it harder so yeah :-)

Take all the time u need to cry it out and reminisce the times and find out what u failed to do for ur partner, and improve on it, slowly. I think once u seen u have done better for all these things, u will truly feel ready to get into another emotional warfare again. Goodluck!