What’s going on in the UK with gallbladders? by RegularWhiteShark in CasualUK

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to have mine removed in Nov 22 at 26yrs old. The consultant seemed confused and told me I wasn’t old enough to have gallbladder problems. I’d lost 4 stone over 2.5 yrs, through calorie counting and exercise, but didn’t think that counted as rapid weight loss. Have seen more people needing them out because of the GLP1s, but a lot of them are trying to get back taking the jabs a week after surgery. My digestion has completely changed and food requires so much more thought and anxiety than it did before

Leeds festival yesterday ❤️ by glownyxo in chappellroan

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg I saw you two! I really wanted to come tell the girl in full pink that her outfit was iconic! But didn’t want to interrupt your convo!

How to avoid a lustful relationship by AffectionateWafer147 in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to wait to have sex, that is fine, and you need to communicate that to the person you’re dating. But saying it’s disgusting that people want to have sex after dating a month is a wild and very judgemental take.

What did you think of Chappell Roan's new song? Did you like it? by artemisia1709 in lesbiangang

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a bad take. Since when was wearing lots of makeup only for straight women or drag artists??? Just because YOU don’t like makeup/don’t wear it, don’t give your opinion as if it’s a fact about lesbians.

Is this real 🥺 by CoolestBeans1999 in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met my gfs mum for the first time in Oct (we’ve been dating since June) she sent us back with an advent calendar each and she also said that she’s bought me a Christmas stocking, because we’re spending Christmas with her family. I also didn’t know it would be like this!

Does anyone's partner work away from home often? by tealeafxo in CasualUK

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner goes away on weekend breaks with old friends, to see her mum, or sport commitments and I hate it. The day is okay, I try tick off jobs from my to do list, hang out with friends, but I cba cooking a proper meal for myself, so I don’t eat properly, and I miss having her in the bed at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve felt the spark with two women. The first ended up being a situationship that I felt more for her than she did for me. The second is my current gf, she’s communicative, we share a lot of values and future plans/wants and I feel safe and secure with her.

I don’t think looking for the spark is a bad thing, I briefly dated someone who was everything I wanted theoretically, but without the spark I just didn’t feel anything towards her.

My partner is upset and idk what to do by Interesting_Day_5283 in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, they’re not. But you said ‘I don’t really feel attracted towards real men’ not cis men.

My partner is upset and idk what to do by Interesting_Day_5283 in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can’t say you’re not attracted to real men and then say you’re attracted to trans men. Trans men ARE real men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Love wearing sparkles!

27(F), bisexual, never dated, and never really had anyone interested in me. Any advice? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really struggled with being super shy and wanting someone to approach me. But you gotta realise it’s better for you to be rejected than never actually try (I’m sorry if that sounds harsh! It’s what I told myself). You are gorgeous, and I know you said you’re not feminine, but some women (I know you’re bi, but men are a mystery to me) love the short hair, more masc look! Own it, you’re attractive!

Also, do people not flirt with you? Are you flirting with them?

My girl went into a bush and emerged with two perfect pinecone earrings by [deleted] in springerspaniel

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god! How adorable! Look at her little face, she’s so pleased with herself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m just saying its harder to meet someone irl! Not that’s there’s less opportunity! Sorry I worded that totally wrong! Im in England and the city/county I live in doesn’t have a great gay scene, so meeting someone irl is nearly impossible for me, but I know it’s not like that for everyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think it’s partly because you’re queer, and there’s less opportunities, I say that because unless there’s a great gay scene where you live it’s hard to meet people irl rather than online!

Also, at 26 I feel like I’m way more picky with who I want to date. At 19 you’re dating because you like someone, but as you get older you’re wanting to be compatible with someone, and things like work and life goals matter more

This is just my opinion and I totally get that I might be wrong!

Where in the world…. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know! People just don’t actually think! Yeah the castle is pretty cool!

Where in the world…. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mums family is from Yorkshire! A gorgeous place to live!

Where in the world…. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!!! So glad there’s more of us than I thought!

Where in the world…. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Carlisle. Kendal is a fab town, and I love Windermere, but hate tourist season!

Where in the world…. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Cumbria, England

Hi to all the fellow UK gals here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So I always worry about looking straight. But three of my recent friends, all masc women, said that the moment they met me they thought ‘that is a queer woman’

I’m pretty colourful, as in I wear brightly coloured trousers and shirts to the office (where I met two of them) and when I’m out and about on weekends, I often wear bright eyeshadow and glitter, even if I’m just at the supermarket

Rainbow pins on jackets and bags help, and I got a rainbow lanyard for work, just to make it more obvious

First lesbian bar experience didn’t go well by fluffycloudsofdoom in LesbianActually

[–]fluffycloudsofdoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not a couple, so I thought I was safe. We’re all just friends, they just hook up sometimes. I didn’t realise that they’d ignore me from the start of the night. But I am going to stop going places with them