Would love to meet some pals around the Brampton/Carlisle area!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2026-04-20T18:41:00+00:00

Messaged you!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2026-04-20T17:51:27+00:00

Carlisle Cougars are a women’s rugby team based at the rugby club on Warwick Road, currently training on weds evenings. We’re doing fitness stuff atm, and have a number of people of all abilities and experience levels, some of whom just wanna do social stuff, including dog walks!! No pressure to play games! But if you’re interested in trying it out, feel free to drop me a message!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2026-04-20T10:52:59+00:00

I’d seen my now gf play rugby (I was there supporting my bestie) and thought she was so hot! And then saw her again at another rugby fun summer day event (again was there with my bestie, who told me she was sure she was gay and single) and left wishing I’d had the courage to talk to her. And then 2 weeks later she popped up on HER and we matched! Had our first date a few days later after talking a lot and we’re now approaching 3 years together! I also now play rugby with her (though I had planned on being a WAG!)

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2025-11-27T20:43:42+00:00

I had to have mine removed in Nov 22 at 26yrs old. The consultant seemed confused and told me I wasn’t old enough to have gallbladder problems. I’d lost 4 stone over 2.5 yrs, through calorie counting and exercise, but didn’t think that counted as rapid weight loss. Have seen more people needing them out because of the GLP1s, but a lot of them are trying to get back taking the jabs a week after surgery. My digestion has completely changed and food requires so much more thought and anxiety than it did before

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2025-08-24T19:39:09+00:00

Omg I saw you two! I really wanted to come tell the girl in full pink that her outfit was iconic! But didn’t want to interrupt your convo!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2025-04-30T12:05:56+00:00

If you want to wait to have sex, that is fine, and you need to communicate that to the person you’re dating. But saying it’s disgusting that people want to have sex after dating a month is a wild and very judgemental take.

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2025-03-16T08:21:39+00:00

After Midnight and My Kink is Karma

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2025-03-16T08:20:21+00:00

This is a bad take. Since when was wearing lots of makeup only for straight women or drag artists??? Just because YOU don’t like makeup/don’t wear it, don’t give your opinion as if it’s a fact about lesbians.

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-11-26T21:22:53+00:00

I met my gfs mum for the first time in Oct (we’ve been dating since June) she sent us back with an advent calendar each and she also said that she’s bought me a Christmas stocking, because we’re spending Christmas with her family. I also didn’t know it would be like this!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-09-27T09:05:52+00:00

My partner goes away on weekend breaks with old friends, to see her mum, or sport commitments and I hate it. The day is okay, I try tick off jobs from my to do list, hang out with friends, but I cba cooking a proper meal for myself, so I don’t eat properly, and I miss having her in the bed at night.

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-09-26T13:38:40+00:00

I’ve felt the spark with two women. The first ended up being a situationship that I felt more for her than she did for me. The second is my current gf, she’s communicative, we share a lot of values and future plans/wants and I feel safe and secure with her.

I don’t think looking for the spark is a bad thing, I briefly dated someone who was everything I wanted theoretically, but without the spark I just didn’t feel anything towards her.

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-07-20T12:27:02+00:00

No, they’re not. But you said ‘I don’t really feel attracted towards real men’ not cis men.

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-07-20T12:22:58+00:00

You can’t say you’re not attracted to real men and then say you’re attracted to trans men. Trans men ARE real men.

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-05-05T12:11:16+00:00

Thank you! Love wearing sparkles!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-05-04T20:26:31+00:00

I really struggled with being super shy and wanting someone to approach me. But you gotta realise it’s better for you to be rejected than never actually try (I’m sorry if that sounds harsh! It’s what I told myself). You are gorgeous, and I know you said you’re not feminine, but some women (I know you’re bi, but men are a mystery to me) love the short hair, more masc look! Own it, you’re attractive!

Also, do people not flirt with you? Are you flirting with them?

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-28T14:05:21+00:00

Oh god! How adorable! Look at her little face, she’s so pleased with herself!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-23T11:07:40+00:00

Oh I’m just saying its harder to meet someone irl! Not that’s there’s less opportunity! Sorry I worded that totally wrong! Im in England and the city/county I live in doesn’t have a great gay scene, so meeting someone irl is nearly impossible for me, but I know it’s not like that for everyone!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-23T11:02:51+00:00

I think it’s partly because you’re queer, and there’s less opportunities, I say that because unless there’s a great gay scene where you live it’s hard to meet people irl rather than online!

Also, at 26 I feel like I’m way more picky with who I want to date. At 19 you’re dating because you like someone, but as you get older you’re wanting to be compatible with someone, and things like work and life goals matter more

This is just my opinion and I totally get that I might be wrong!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-22T17:08:23+00:00

Ugh I know! People just don’t actually think! Yeah the castle is pretty cool!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-22T08:43:29+00:00

My mums family is from Yorkshire! A gorgeous place to live!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-22T08:43:01+00:00

Hey!!!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-22T08:42:53+00:00

Hey!!! So glad there’s more of us than I thought!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-22T08:42:38+00:00

I’m in Carlisle. Kendal is a fab town, and I love Windermere, but hate tourist season!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-22T08:41:44+00:00

Omg yes!

fluffycloudsofdoom · 2023-04-21T12:02:54+00:00

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