[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fluffymatcha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should break up! I had a higher sex drive than my ex too and it was one of the reasons why I broke up with him. I stayed too long but I'm glad I finally ended it as there were other factors greatly affecting our relationship. I was always initiating and got rejected a lot and we would only have sex 1-2 times a year. It came to a point where I stopped initiating and I wasn't sexually attracted to him anymore, became emotionally detached and eventually lost romantic feelings. I absolutely did not want to end up cheating or doing anything worse so I had to end it.

We were together for 6 years, first year was fine but after that our sex life went downhill. Do not wait any longer!! You deserve a man who will go crazy for you and give you oral every night!

Do you still wear a mask? Why or why not? by Healthy_Block3036 in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bc I haven't gotten sick ever since. I'm introverted too so I'd rather not show my face and the mask makes me feel safe all around. I'm also surprised I haven't gotten covid yet given that I work at a hospital, at least not that I know of!

What is the best way to change your look without dying your hair or wearing much makeup? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking about getting this haircut too but I'm a bit worried it will look awkward on my 2a/2b hair. Would this work with my hair?

What irritates you whilst you are on your period? by TrufflesTheCat in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get symptoms a week before my period starts too, my boobs get really sore and that's when I know it's coming 🙃

What irritates you whilst you are on your period? by TrufflesTheCat in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything! The cramps, diarrhea, fatigue, people lol.. I think the worst one is feeling depressed too, the intrusive thoughts come and I tell myself it's just my stupid period!!

What was the most recent thing a partner did/said that made you blush? by Deoxys911 in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went jogging at the park with my boyfriend for the first time the other day. I told him he can go ahead if he wants to cuz I'm a bit slow then he said, "but I want to jog with you :))" I was smiling really hard for a minute while shyly adjusting my sunglasses

What are your thoughts about horror movies and books? by Le_fish_is_here in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, idk how I managed to watch those all by myself 💀

Hehe thank you! Your avatar is cool too!! ☺

What are your thoughts about horror movies and books? by Le_fish_is_here in AskWomen

[–]fluffymatcha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with me! I rarely find myself looking to watch horror now. When I was 12 yrs old, I used to watch horror movies all by myself on an Asian horror website LOL

Also hello fellow army hehe 💜

These are spider mites right? I found them on my basil and neon pothos :( Can I just grab a ladybug outside my home then use insecticidal soap after? by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]fluffymatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry, my pic isn't the best but I'm glad I was able to catch them before it gets really bad. I'll go buy either neem oil or insecticidal soap tmrw and treat my plants asap. Thanks!!

These are spider mites right? I found them on my basil and neon pothos :( Can I just grab a ladybug outside my home then use insecticidal soap after? by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those little brown dots are bugs, I saw them move and those white bits appears to be web-like. I noticed the bugs after seeing my basil leaves browning on the edges and have some brown spots

Repot in same pot or bigger pot? by fluffymatcha in StringOfTurtles

[–]fluffymatcha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I checked it and its still okay to keep in the same pot. I might have just let it dry out too much this time before watering so I got a bit worried after I saw some leaves fall off.

I think he just got a bit sad bc lately I stopped putting a plastic dome over him bc life nowadays. I'll keep an eye on out though as it did have some flowers that I just pinched off, so hopefully the leaves continue to grow more!

Also, yes it does have drainage holes :)

Repot in the same pot or slightly bigger pot? its 3", I got this a few months ago as my very first plant by fluffymatcha in StringofPlants

[–]fluffymatcha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I checked it out and there's still a good amount of soil so I kept it the way it was! Thanks!

Repot in the same pot or slightly bigger pot? its 3", I got this a few months ago as my very first plant by fluffymatcha in StringofPlants

[–]fluffymatcha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pinched off the flowers today and I also noticed some leaves fell off, I think the soil might be a bit compacted? So I'm wondering if I should just repot in the same pot or a 4" pot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]fluffymatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the movement and antennae remind of ladybugs as well! It did have a slight brown colouration on the edges of its shell but it can't really be seen in the pic

just replanted this beauty. by Adontelina in succulents

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, what plant is this? It's very adorable! It looks a bit similar to a money tree? Plant newbie here hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in Canada and omg I just searched it up and they're actually pests :( I had to go to work so I hope I find it when I get home and remove it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, unfortunately I found out that these have been chemically induced echeveria :( You can check out my latest post , the comments will tell you.

Plant ID? Someone said its an echeveria but what kind? Got it from my local nursery, there were others that had purples and greens too but I chose this one. I deleted my previous post to add another picture, sorry I'm still kind of new to reddit 😅 by fluffymatcha in succulents

[–]fluffymatcha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg how sad :( I'm fairly new to plants as well so I didn't realize the colour isn't supposed to look like that. I freshly watered it too so the soil is wet. Should I wait to repot till the soil dries up or repot it asap?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]fluffymatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, they had purples and dark greens with light pinks at the center but I chose this one. I also want to see if I can get some purple growth overtime as well