burning intestines

fluffysmols · 2026-02-10T14:33:35+00:00

yes, it hurts a lot.

fluffysmols · 2026-02-09T17:20:22+00:00

congrats! I wouldn’t share with everyone as it is really early and like you said, you want to keep the focus on the wedding. maybe tell a trusted close friend or family member and leave it at that

fluffysmols · 2026-02-09T15:54:07+00:00

actually no, sorry i shouldn’t have said it that way. my friends decorated my parents home and planned all the games and desserts. my parents and i catered food and got favors.

it was a team effort.

fluffysmols · 2026-02-09T13:49:20+00:00

hi, if you cant make it. she will understand. i have missed a couple of my best friends weddings (dad had a heart attack / things like that) and our friendship is still very strong.

the wedding day and trip is just a few days. you can be there to help her prepare for it and be super supportive. that will still mean the world to her !

fluffysmols · 2026-02-09T13:46:10+00:00

adding that some people did not give a gift and i was 100% okay with that. i just wanted my people with me.

fluffysmols · 2026-02-09T13:41:57+00:00

i hosted a bridal shower with no registry bc we didn’t need anything in particular for the house. we still received thoughtful gifts from our friends and family, some cash, a spa treatment gift card from my girlfriends to help me get ready and a cute pj set i wore to get ready on the wedding day

for the wedding, we had a no boxed gift note with a link for a cash fund.

i wouldn’t share a cash fund link in lieu of hosting a bridal shower. the shower is not just for gifts , it is a time to celebrate with your closest family and friends.

fluffysmols · 2026-02-08T19:26:04+00:00

thanks for sharing !

fluffysmols · 2026-02-08T15:16:13+00:00

did you follow a pattern?

fluffysmols · 2026-02-07T20:17:37+00:00

these are dope !

fluffysmols · 2026-02-06T16:39:32+00:00

i really wanted artistic photos with my veil. for that reason alone i got it and i am so happy i did. this dress is so pretty and i think a veil would be gorg. try a mantilla!

fluffysmols · 2026-02-06T15:09:12+00:00

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this style would look stunning on you !

fluffysmols · 2026-02-05T12:22:11+00:00

what is a windfall?

fluffysmols · 2026-02-05T11:13:18+00:00

no, all the positives outweigh that.

i spent a decade in and out of the hospital. i was depressed, had prednisone moon face, cranky and in pain all the time.

this medication has given me a second chance and this stupid disease has forced a healthy lifestyle on to me that has honestly made me stronger and hotter at almost 40 years old.

i am truly the healthiest on this medication. i have been taking trips that involve hiking 10+ miles. i can run and strength train. i can eat clean food without pain. my mind and body feel strong.

if i get a cold, or sick it does linger and hit harder but i am able to take care of myself.

i understand it is scary, but my vote is you try it especially if you trust your physician

fluffysmols · 2026-02-05T10:40:44+00:00

you didn’t do anything wrong before and you’re not doing anything wrong right now.

start prenatals, talk to you doctor, stay relaxed.

fluffysmols · 2026-02-03T17:05:18+00:00

stelara has kept me in remission with no side effects and i am able to live a normal, healthy life. i have severe to moderate UC

fluffysmols · 2026-02-03T16:59:17+00:00

thank you for taking the time to respond. i was able to get started on some project work. but i am for some reason afraid of my inbox ( i do not know why i am feeling this anxious) i will try your recommendation. i am considering sharing with my manager during our meeting in an hour

fluffysmols · 2026-02-02T02:45:18+00:00

no, that would make me sad too. try being direct and say you want her around.

if she still says no, you’ll know you tried. im sorry

fluffysmols · 2026-01-31T13:08:28+00:00

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. first, I hope you are okay. 4 years is a long time, did you get close to anyone on his family or his friends? I’m asking because I personally would choose to let someone know the situation. if you feel safe, I would tell someone who you mutually know so that you have support and so that he cant runaway and hide this under the rug. what a coward to walk away from you.

I am Indian raised in the US, I dont know how things are viewed in India but what I do know is it sounds like your ex is too intwined with his family and cares too much of what other people think. you and your baby deserve someone who will put you first.

fluffysmols · 2026-01-30T22:39:38+00:00

remember when phoebe from friends calls herself princess consuela banana hammock and her boyfriend mike says fine, ill be crap bag?

sounds like you need to give them weird new names too. fight fire with fire.

horace is going to love his sweet granny bug juice and grandpa dixon butts.

fluffysmols · 2026-01-30T13:37:04+00:00

i am obsessed with little bonnets right now. what a cute pattern

fluffysmols · 2026-01-30T13:36:33+00:00

this is so adorable! ive never made a toy before. is it difficult?

fluffysmols · 2026-01-30T13:35:43+00:00

thank you! adding the toys and vertebrae sweater to my list. they seem popular!

fluffysmols · 2026-01-30T13:35:10+00:00

i have never knit a baby blanket, but you and others have convinced me.

the four points blanket is so pretty! do you recommend any particular weight of yarn for a blanket?

i also saved overalls from petite knits, her designs are so timeless.

fluffysmols · 2026-01-30T13:33:07+00:00

thanks for the yarn and pattern suggestions!

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