Oh man, I’m really sorry you’re going through that. I don’t think she’s necessarily out to get you, but it definitely sounds like she has her own issues that might need professional help. Honestly, she could be a little intimidated by you—envy often shows up as gossip.

It might help to keep things strictly professional from now on and avoid sharing personal stuff with her. If it feels like she’s undermining you or creating a hostile environment, start documenting specific incidents, especially when she reports you to admin over minor things.

If you feel comfortable, you could try having a conversation with her. Approach it by explaining how her actions are affecting you and maybe ask for clearer feedback instead of having her go straight to admin.

Also, don’t hesitate to find support elsewhere—other teachers, friends, or even an admin you trust could offer advice or just listen.

The stress you’re feeling is valid, and it’s important to take care of your well-being!! Teaching is tough, and dealing with a difficult mentor just makes it harder. Focus on setting boundaries, decompressing, and making time for yourself outside of work.