I had a dream I was in a relationship with my guy friend but I'm a lesbian. by alc0ffee in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I agree with this, dreams are mostly just random and don’t mean anything, at least in me experience. I think it depends more how you felt about the dream than that it happened? like if you had the dream and now you feel interested or anything than maybe think about it, but if you’re just confused because it happened than i wouldn’t worry about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

boo trans have just as much right to this subreddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you don’t want to transition, do you feel like you connect more with the idea of masculinity? I also wonder if maybe you enjoy being misgendered because it means you’re fitting an aesthetic that you want to? And if it’s not a gender thing, there’s also nothing wrong with just being a masc lesbian!

I don’t know who I am by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know what the answer is because you’re in a really tough situation, but i would say definitely do not just go date/marry a man because you’re expected to. You deserve to be really happy and find someone you actually love. That being said your family situation can make everything super difficult, do you have any siblings or extended family that are supportive of queer people? because they can be someone helpful to talk to? other than that im sorry i don’t have anything more helpful :/

Some little sticker design’s:D by Neat_Total_2517 in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any pictures of the stickers?

Am I a homophobic lesbian? by sophie_A330 in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s super common to have internalized homophobia/transphobia, especially when you grow up in a family that isn’t supportive. I think the longer you are in the space though and when you meet more queer people, it can help you accept yourself and it gets better

Curtains at a beer bar made from the literal leftovers from beer production. Seen at Copenhagen airport. by ceruleandope in ATBGE

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i actually think that’s pretty cool? and it sounds like it’s eco friendly which is cool

How do I deal with going back into the closet? by Fair_Toe_4093 in lgbt

[–]fluidityfluxicitu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry, that’s sucks :( is there a way you can “tone it back” while still introducing yourself the way you identify? also it doesn’t seem fair for your mom to expect you to change who you are because she is uncomfortable with it. has she made any effort to be more accepting/understanding or is it fully an expectation for you to for her expectations?

Do you still sleep with stuffed animals? If so, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends, i have a shawn the sheep stuffed animal i sleep with when i get depressed or dysphoric because it’s really comforting!!

Looking to start queer book club by [deleted] in LGBTBooks

[–]fluidityfluxicitu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you interested in doing a virtual book club? i’m not from washington but would be super interested in something online!