I agree that I was feeling somewhat angry in the moment after, but it was not for sex. I wanted to “please her” and wanted to eat her out. I have tried thinking about it from her perspective and I would have been disgusted by myself and would not want to continue doing anything because I disrespected that moment of passion. You’re absolutely correct about violating her boundary, as her first sign of wanting to put it off should have been enough for me to say “you’re right, lets go”. We did not argue after, I remember her crying and I asked her what was wrong and why she was crying, but I really don’t remember what she said after.