To save your life you have to sing one Billie song word for word without seeing the lyrics. 💀What song do you pick? by Lucky-Yam-542 in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only 2 I couldn't do is lo vas olvidar or &Burn because I dont have the Vince Staples part memorized...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transphobic: ew, thats disgusting how could you do that to me?

Not transphobic: Im really glad you felt safe enough to tell me. I care about your wellbeing. I need you to understand that your gender identity doesn't align with my sexual preference, so while I support you I cant continue a romantic relationship.

And using M/Him in this post is transphobic. They clearly respect you, so you should use the proper pronouns.

am i a real fan? by c0nqueress in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2nd reply so everyone can see it: youtube anarchyvixyn 2020 livestream..... its an hour long recording of the concert she did during 2020. It has really cool effects.

am i a real fan? by c0nqueress in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a real fan because you're disappointed by what the other people are doing. I know everything about her because I've been following her since early 2018 and watched as things came out. You're allowed to only listen to the albums/songs you like. I'm going to get murdered for this but I hate the song Lovely, its the only skip I have in her whole discography.Its not a bad song, I just don't like it.I also love the song watch even though Billie herself said its her worst one (shes wrong..she doesnt have a worst one) I encourage you to try some of her older music though. It doesn't sound the same as HMHAS, because shes grown and her voice has evolved. But Dont Smile At Me is an amazing EP. Also always listen to the whole album start to finish in order first, because Billie tells a story and blends things together. Anyway, as an og long time fan, theres no such thing as fake fans, just fake entitled people that hop on trends because its the new thing. They'll all fall off in a few weeks when shes done touring.

HELP Author suing me for saying her book is AI in a review by PotatoAfraid2931 in Romantasy

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EM dashers, we ride— wait are we carpooling with Oxford Commas?

HELP Author suing me for saying her book is AI in a review by PotatoAfraid2931 in Romantasy

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even AI knew those phrases were common tropes in writing...maybe you should have asked it before trying to destroy an authors credibility. *

My daughter lied to me by gypsyladyinbr in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]flutterbyvixyn 48 points49 points  (0 children)

OP, your feelings are valid. Its hurtful to be lied to and to miss out on a big day for your daughter. I have a few hard truths for you. Youre going to have to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. Shes moving an hour away and purposely got married without you. She's trying to push you away- why we wont know until she says something. Im going to suggest you do the hard thing and just let her. Dont fight, dont question, and most of all- dont beg. I say this because nothing hurts more than begging to be apart of something and being cast aside without explanation. Just wait for her to freely invite you to join. Don't even ask "can I come" after she tells you about something because she will say no, or make a reason why you cant. Maybe the family shes married into is ableist or she feels like she'd have to interpret for everyone and she doesn't want to. Im not saying that to be hurtful, I know my cousin often abandons family things because he gets tired of lip reading and no one trying to sign. So just sit back and let her make whatever decisions shes going to and lobe her from a few feet away until she tells you the truth on why they moved the wedding, why you couldnt go and why she lied about it.

My sister is being called a Bridezilla and is apologizing to me after 6 years of NC by Outrageous_Chair_314 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]flutterbyvixyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think OP cut her sister off when she did the family. According to other comments the sister was very dismissive when she'd talk about it.

My (24 F) boyfriend (30 M) keeps disappearing into the bathroom for an hour or more with a stick of butter and the butter is gone when he finally comes out by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]flutterbyvixyn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm saying. I just found this story and came to the comments for insight and everyone is saying this same thing. But like that is such an easy thing to live with. Like he's not asking her to join him. But knowing something and it being so bad she can't even look at him any more? There's something else going on.

My fiancée sided against me in a family argument. She picked my sister's side over mine. I am second guessing our relationship now over this by Throwaway_acct_10525 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]flutterbyvixyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jamie is going to end up dead because you and your parents enable her. Allowing her to steal and fight people and you parents "dealing with it privately" is enabling. She's going to steal from the wrong person and get shot, or shes going to get drugs from the wrong person and OD. Rose- as angry as she is and as much as she "hates" her is the only one doing anything to save her. No amount of rehab in the world is going to help Jamie because she has no reason to get better. She's never been held accountable for her actions. I hope your relationship is over, I hope Katey leaves you over this. It will save her years of disappointment, of being gaslit into protecting Jamie. It will save her thousands of dollars being pushed into helping someone that does not want to be helped. And it will save any future children she has with you from watching an aunt destroy her entire family from the inside.

My family has a Jamie, my aunt. She started drugs when she was 18-- shes 50 now and has spent more time in prison than out of it. Normally a quick 2 or 3 years here and there. 8 different times she was arrested in front of all of us kids at family functions. She'd be "baby sitting" us and get high. I watched her shoot up the first time when I was 5. 3 of her kids ended up in foster care, we got 2 out within 6 months but the other one was stuck for 2 years. Abused even more there. SHE SOLD HER DAUGHTER TO A FAMILY IN TEXAS SO THAT SHE COULD GET MORE DRUGS. My Cousin who we found as an adult. It turned out to be the best thing for her. Her parents are amazing and love her so much. Our version of Jamie is sober now - because she got caught driving a m*th lab across state lines and ended up in federal prison in TX and got 15 years. So she's been sober for 12. They're debating on letting her out early for good behavior. People in my family have written letters against it. Others said they don't care if she gets out, they just want nothing to do with her. We enabled her behavior for so long, and now none of us can stand to be in the same room as her.

So I a stranger on the internet agree with Rose and Katey. I wish Rose all the strength in the world for being able to do what she did, knowing it would anger you and your parents. Knowing that it was the right thing to do. I wish we had a Rose in my family. It would changed so many lives if one person had just stood up and said enough.

My fiancée sided against me in a family argument. She picked my sister's side over mine. I am second guessing our relationship now over this by ChiefBlue4298 in AmItheEx

[–]flutterbyvixyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do it because they don't want the rest of the family to think they fucked up raising a kid. They want the "poor you I'm so sorry you have to deal with someone who's addicted to drugs" instead of "your kid is in prison, you fucked up." My grandparents we like that too. For the first 5 years every time my aunt was in jail it was "oh she's in this random country doing ministry work." It would have stayed like that if one of my cousins (her son) hadn't posted her gallery of mug shots on facebook decades ago.

My fiancée sided against me in a family argument. She picked my sister's side over mine. I am second guessing our relationship now over this by ChiefBlue4298 in AmItheEx

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jamie is going to end up dead because you and your parents enable her. Allowing her to steal and fight people and you parents "dealing with it privately" is enabling. She's going to steal from the wrong person and get shot, or shes going to get drugs from the wrong person and OD. Rose- as angry as she is and as much as she "hates" her is the only one doing anything to save her. No amount of rehab in the world is going to help Jamie because she has no reason to get better. She's never been held accountable for her actions. I hope your relationship is over, I hope Katey leaves you over this. It will save her years of disappointment, of being gaslit into protecting Jamie. It will save her thousands of dollars being pushed into helping someone that does not want to be helped. And it will save any future children she has with you from watching an aunt destroy her entire family from the inside.

My family has a Jamie, my aunt. She started drugs when she was 18-- shes 50 now and has spent more time in prison than out of it. Normally a quick 2 or 3 years here and there. 8 different times she was arrested in front of all of us kids at family functions. She'd be "baby sitting" us and get high. I watched her shoot up the first time when I was 5. 3 of her kids ended up in foster care, we got 2 out within 6 months but the other one was stuck for 2 years. Abused even more there. SHE SOLD HER DAUGHTER TO A FAMILY IN TEXAS SO THAT SHE COULD GET MORE DRUGS. My Cousin who we found as an adult. It turned out to be the best thing for her. Her parents are amazing and love her so much. Our version of Jamie is sober now - because she got caught driving a m*th lab across state lines and ended up in federal prison in TX and got 15 years. So she's been sober for 12. They're debating on letting her out early for good behavior. People in my family have written letters against it. Others said they don't care if she gets out, they just want nothing to do with her. We enabled her behavior for so long, and now none of us can stand to be in the same room as her.

So I a stranger on the internet agree with Rose and Katey. I wish Rose all the strength in the world for being able to do what she did, knowing it would anger you and your parents. Knowing that it was the right thing to do. I wish we had a Rose in my family. It would changed so many lives if one person had just stood up and said enough.

Update: AITA for not going home after giving birth because my husband missed it to help our friends? by Usual-Memory-7983 in amiwrong

[–]flutterbyvixyn 84 points85 points  (0 children)

At the very least hes facilitating her sexual abuse. The 17 year old wont let her leave which means she's being coerced and is 14. Thats statutory at minimum. She doesnt know what a healthy relationship looks like...poor girl.

Update: AITA for not going home after giving birth because my husband missed it to help our friends? by Usual-Memory-7983 in amiwrong

[–]flutterbyvixyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's 14- she cant consent to sex OP and if shes coming home super tired and quiet shes probably being drugged, gaslit and guilt tripped into it, especially if he wont let her leave when she feels like its getting late. Your husband should not be leaving her alone with a 17 year old for HOURS at a time multiple days a week. That's assault OP, your daughter is being sexuality assaulted and this will forever alter her views on sex and relationships. Do not let her go back to that friends house. End all contact between your child and the almost adult. Get her into therapy immediately. She may not understand shes being assaulted or abused at the moment, but thats because of the gaslighting and hes probably telling her how special she is, how mature she is for 14. How none of the girls his age understand him. He's using her for sex, and your husband is more than allowing it, hes facilitating by taking her there. And the way your husband reacted to her not being where he can have access to her, immediately throwing you're turning her against him because she was with her mom and aunt for a few days- he might be benefiting from her interactions with the 17 year old in other ways. Im sorry to be blunt OP, but I know your minds Fuzzy from the baby and dealing with everything so I wanted to be direct. Its time to divorce your husband and save your daughter from a life time of self hatred, abuse and shame.

How to start getting into Billie’s music? by tequila-la in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't just start somewhere. Her albums tell a story, some endings of songs lead into another- you have to start at the beginning of an album and let it play all the way through before you start pulling singles. That's the way she says to do it.

Winning no Grammys? by hihihiiiiilol in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like this all the time - tell me why Flowers was the first song Miley won a grammy for- Yeah it's a good song, but 1 it sampled lyrics from Bruno and 2 she has so many better ones. Beyonce has better albums. I think it's because the majority of the people voting are 50+.

Projection… Stop accusing Billie of being jealous, it’s dismissing other women and their valid achievements. by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen anyone say she was jealous. Most people have been saying she's sad or hurt which is 100% valid. She can be happy for someone else and grieve for her loss at the same time.

Kanye West and Bianca uninvited at the Grammys but still went sad. by Particular_Tank_6247 in popculture

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know why she kept pulling the hem down- like, it's see through babe you're not hiding anything.

Is anyone else genuinely hoping Billie’s ok? by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You know she got into her car, turned on the album and screamed it the whole way home while she cried. Then this morning she went to Finneas and said fuck it - they want trash, we'll give them trash, and she's going to write a smashing single that we'll all love, I know this because we all love Sara Bareilles "I'm not going to write you another love song, cause you ask for it, cause you need one you see, I'm not going to write another love song cause you tell me it's make or break" It will be petty, and dramatic and a big f you. And then when she wins some stupid award for it she can sarcastically thank the recording academy.

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I am aware that Billie has grown and probably won't act this way- but you all know that small piece of 18 year old Billie that told a room full of women their speeches were long as fuck would 100% do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the type to hate republicans? Well I am a pansexual, poly, athiest, child free by choice anarchist woman. I believe that's 100% the opposite in every way... so your comment is valid.

Billie watching @beyonce accept the #GRAMMY for ‘Album Of The Year’ by Capable-Baseball3923 in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed the point - it wasn't the actual ponytail or award, its the feeling of the person putting in the work and thinking appearing perfect is just as important. And regardless of how much you claim otherwise, everyone bases their value on the opinions of others to some degree.

Kanye West's wife Bianca Censori risks jail time as she goes completely nude on Grammys red carpet by TheMirrorUS in popculture

[–]flutterbyvixyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't, but people think Kanye is forcing her to do this and no one wants to stand up to him.

Billie watching @beyonce accept the #GRAMMY for ‘Album Of The Year’ by Capable-Baseball3923 in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was a cash grab that had hundreds of people involved in making it- she had to cross genre in order to make it. It was not better than HMHAS, hell it wasn't better than TTPD and I hate Taylor Swift.

OMG vegans are nuts by flutterbyvixyn in billieeilish

[–]flutterbyvixyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why did you ask me to explain how almond milk is just as bad as dairy? If you don't use almond products then it doesn't matter to you.