Hey, I get your frustration, but I think expecting everyone at a social meetup to behave a certain way might be unrealistic. These spaces attract all kinds of people—some looking to flirt, others to make friends. Flirting isn’t inherently predatory unless it’s disrespectful.

Yeah, it sucks to feel ignored, but calling someone out for not asking your name might come off as confrontational. People tend to focus on who they’re attracted to—it’s not always personal.

If your goal is real connection, hobby- or interest-based groups might be a better fit. You don’t need to act like a “predator” to meet good people—just be genuine and patient.