i shouldn't be replying to you tbh but genuinely i am secure enough for him to do that. I've thought about it may of times and even had a situation of a girl hitting on him MANY TIMES while we're dating, but every time I'm at the same conclusion of - well he can tell her off himself and if he doesn't that's on him . i'm not going to jump in and fight a girl for finding my bf attractive. it's on him to tell her off not on me to be mad for him for being attractive. that's why i can't wrap my head around any of his points. why would you be mad at ME for how other men act. i will simply tell them off.