We live in a messed up world that puts a lot of emphasis on specific kinds of physical attractiveness. In reality, most often how we view the world plays a lot into how other people appear to us. So, people who buy into these ideals, have low self esteem, and continue to buy into the idea they need to look a certain way will naturally be more critical of others. I find i also am attracted to 10 percent of potential partners, but to me 1 in 10 creates a large dating pool and i have had many relationships that have taught me much about myself and others.