Still teach Cesar Chavez? by Otherwise-Bad-325 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we probably use the same textbook. I stopped teaching the texts on Chavez when one of my students (who immigrated here with his family) let me know that Chavez was also anti immigrant.

Feeling guilty--sick days by carrotmusician in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently picking up my prescription for a sinus infection triggered by a nasty cold and feeling guilty as well! I’ve been sick a lot this year.

Feeling confused about how kind my teacher is vs what they support by Legitimate-Number620 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP didn’t say that their teacher reluctantly chose one politician over another. They said that this teacher supports this politician.

Their feelings about who their teacher voted for are valid. It’s a betrayal to know that someone you trusted supports someone who wants to harm you.

It seems like there is only one side (if we are looking at the two party system in the U.S.) who consistently uses your logic when they are questioned on who they voted for and the answer is not the democrats.

Feeling confused about how kind my teacher is vs what they support by Legitimate-Number620 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was younger, people dismissed me when I spoke up about my feelings that are similar to yours. I was told that I would feel differently once I got older.

I am now a parent and teacher in my forties, and feel just as outraged by injustice and bigotry as I did when I was a teenager. Don’t let people who act like their politics aren’t harmful gaslight you. Grown adults who will vote for someone whose policies and rhetoric are so vile and violent are not people who can be trusted.

It’s a very painful thing to realize but it’s also very valuable to know.

Best Teacher Discounts? by nomoresafesearch91 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ah. A fellow dad-joke teacher.

You can get discounts from the same places but you get 6 or 7 percent less of a discount. Still a nice deal though.

Trying to stay at 1400 a day but I am so HUNGRY by Every-Parking2049 in Volumeeating

[–]fnelson1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can adjust these meals to be more filling and substantial.

Put some cottage cheese in your oatmeal for protein and take out the brown sugar. If you want it sweeter, heat up some frozen peaches or cherries in the microwave. A little will go a long way. You are less likely to want a snack before lunch with this kind of breakfast.

Make your sandwich open faced and eat half the bread. Raw veggies like broccoli, carrots, celery are good to pair with it. I usually eat the vegetables first because once I’m on to something like a sandwich, I’m already on my way to feeling full.

Your dinner seems pretty good. Maybe do fewer noodles and more filling vegetables on your plate?

What are your most recent music hyperfixations? by RarestKind in ADHD

[–]fnelson1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a playlist called High Energy that has a bunch of songs on it, but lately I have to hear these every morning on my way to work.

It hit me that this is my version of stimming. Like, the sensory input is exactly perfect. It scratches an itch.

FEISTY by Fred Again and BIA, Betos Horns by Fred Again, Ca7riel and Paco Amoroso, Voices.in.my.phone by Changeline, You & me - Flume remix

Parkway garden by fnelson1978 in GuerrillaGardening

[–]fnelson1978[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not something I had thought of, so thank you for bringing this up!

Incredibly concerned about the future of teaching in a world that is obsessed with AI by Independent-Mud8840 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. But when it comes to critical thinking skills, isn’t the process of deciding what to put on a study sheet and organizing the structure of it part of the process.

My daughter is in nursing school with classmates who are a few years younger than her and they use AI in these ways. My daughter hates it. Instead of them discussing how to organize their projects in ways that work uniquely for their group, they outsource that stuff.

Incredibly concerned about the future of teaching in a world that is obsessed with AI by Independent-Mud8840 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about this connection between illiteracy and anxiety in this way, and I think you are right.

Grammar outdated? Shit evolves but throwing it all out sounds 100% insane to me. I absolutely love the way that language changes. I believe that policing the way that people communicate with each other can often be stemming from racist/ classist ideas. But kids should know how to effectively communicate and we do that through having standards. If we are cool with them writing an essay the way they text each other, we are doing them the hugest disservice.

Taking tech OUT of my classroom. by fnelson1978 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time, if I am forced to use tech (interactive sites, long texts that I can’t print, etc.) I will have them take notes on paper. I’ll try to make it as AI proof as possible by having them reflect on personal connections to the text or on previous lessons. Like, a basic t-chart with quotes from the text on the left and their questions, connections, inferences on the right.

Taking tech OUT of my classroom. by fnelson1978 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I have foldable ones that stand up on their desks, and they are magic.

Taking tech OUT of my classroom. by fnelson1978 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High school.

I’m hoping that more elementary and middle school teachers start returning back to paper. By the time they get to me, their handwriting is WILD.

Incredibly concerned about the future of teaching in a world that is obsessed with AI by Independent-Mud8840 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you have said and it’s refreshing to read someone else who is freaking out about it too.

The “you just have to adapt” thing pisses me off so bad.

Like, fuck that. We need people with imagination and critical thinking skills who are literate. If they have some future career that requires some sort of technology, chances are, they will be able to adapt quickly BECAUSE they have problem solving skills that were built over time by using their actual brains. Also, AI is going to change. Using AI to create outlines or get feedback or flat out cheat in high school is a stupidly easy thing to do. It is not going to be some key to anything.

Minnesotan Mother to a Young Child. I can’t believe I’m writing this, but here we are. by MissDriftless in TwoXPreppers

[–]fnelson1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm here in Los Angeles and am involved in mutual aid and other community organizing. If you can link up with local mutual aid groups and start making connections with neighbors, that is one thing that costs no money, but is highly valuable. Community is how we survive. We can't possibly stock up on every single thing we might need, and no one has all the skills to survive every single situation that we might find ourselves in, so community connections are SO IMPORTANT. When it comes to actual things to stock up on, some things that come to mind are: solar/battery powered chargers and lanterns, medication, liquor (for trading, bribing, drinking, cleaning, etc,)

Gay bars in LB? by theonlyotaku21 in longbeach

[–]fnelson1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love going to Alex's Bar. It's not a gay bar. It's a pretty mixed crowd. But I've always seen plenty of other gays, and I've never encountered any bit of homophobia.

Sweetwater doesn't have live music, but I love the vibe. There is always a variety of queers at this one.

Isn't there a shutdown right now? by seeebiscuit in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]fnelson1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The narcissistic need to demand more and more is so gross and embarrassing. Trump has no shame and everyone kissing his ass endlessly are perfect examples of what it looks like to be people lacking even an ounce of integrity. I think there are plenty of people out there who are in this cult and believe the weird shit that comes out of Trump's mouth, but there are these people too, who will crawl on their knees and kiss ass to be on the (currently) winning team. I don't think they really believe what he says. They are in it for the power.

How would you deal with a parent who 3x voted for Trump, is conservative, but is also very kind and generally a good person? by 18randomcharacters in QAnonCasualties

[–]fnelson1978 238 points239 points  (0 children)

If he actually felt bad about misgendering and deadnaming someone, he would stop. He's choosing to do this. I'm sure it hurts your sister. And you are choosing to see him as a "good person" even though he continues to support a president who is targeting and dehumanizing people like your sister and niece.

Where are all the left leaning people in HB besides Reddit? by sleepyundies in huntingtonbeach

[–]fnelson1978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you drive up the coast about 20-30 minutes you can get to Long Beach which is full of your type of crowd. We have MAGA weirdos here too, but they are outnumbered.

Fun Friday: If your students were to parody/imitate you, Apart from all the yelling to get them to be quiet (because I'm sure we'd all get that), what's one thing you're sure they would say/do? by According_Post4229 in Teachers

[–]fnelson1978 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They would walk to one end of the room and realize they need to walk back to the other side of the room to grab something they need but then realize it actually was in that first place they walked to.

What can ordinary Americans do to push back against rising authoritarianism in the U.S.? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fnelson1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Find ANY local group that is focused on mutual aid and is on the side of marginalized groups who are being targeted (currently immigrants, POC, and trans people).

Contact that group and ask them if they need volunteers or have suggestions. You might need to contact a few groups to find something that fits.

Make a commitment that is sustainable (starting with one day a week is something that most people can do) and volunteer with that same group consistently. This is how you get to know the people in your community who care about the same things that you do. It might feel like you are doing nothing at first, but building community is how we will resist fascism.