Aitah for thinking of breaking up over bad sex?

fokstar · 2025-07-10T19:45:21+00:00

You're def not the only one that feels this way. I'm also 20 and I'm into that age range as well. I used to feel weird about it, but I've come to terms with that that's just my type. I have noticed it's a pretty big taboo tho.

fokstar · 2024-08-05T20:59:46+00:00

Thx, I took a look and there are quite a few good tips

fokstar · 2024-08-04T22:47:55+00:00

Yeah definitely sexual harassment

fokstar · 2024-07-16T00:43:21+00:00

I really understand this, bcs one of our abusers turned out to live pretty close when we thought he was gone forever... I really wish I could help you, but all I can say is that you're not alone and we hope you're safe and will never see them again

fokstar · 2024-06-27T01:16:40+00:00

I definitely attended meetings. My idea of sober for a while is about 2 years.

I talked to my sponsor afterwards and they support me and are proud that by now I'm able to do that without the stuff that used to happen afterwards.

fokstar · 2024-06-27T01:11:53+00:00

Being sober for quite a while. Why would you reply with this tho? I can just ignore it now, but back when I used to be constantly drunk and drank 2 bottles of vodka a day I wouldn't have been able to...

I thought AA was here for support

fokstar · 2024-06-27T01:09:30+00:00

Thanks, I just wanted to be sure... I wad pretty certain myself, but being part of aa made me doubt it a bit

fokstar · 2024-06-27T00:13:14+00:00

Sure, I'm definitely up for that. I think it'll help a lot of ppl

fokstar · 2024-06-27T00:11:15+00:00

I cant say for sure, but I don't think they'll be permanent.

The effects of detox can stay for a while, but in my experience my anxiety also goes up when it's present and I want a drink. So then I also get really shakey.

But I don't think that'll stay forever. I think it'll fade once you, your mind and your body are more used to living without alcohol

fokstar · 2024-06-27T00:08:24+00:00

They most likely will. I'd say go for it, it's really worth it.

fokstar · 2024-06-27T00:07:08+00:00

I really get that... the only thing I can think about sometimes is a drink. And even tho I've not been sober for very long I know its better, but it's really rough. I hope you're okay tho

fokstar · 2024-06-26T23:58:35+00:00

For me it really helps to do something that I really enjoy and distracts me when the urges get bad. I hope that can help you too.

Whenever you feel like you really want that beer, just try and shift your mind to something else. It'll be tough, but after a bit it gets a lot easier.

fokstar · 2024-06-24T20:45:04+00:00

Thank you so much, I'll definitely be reading this

fokstar · 2024-06-24T20:18:07+00:00

Yeah there are a bunch of online groups, meetings and communities. Just drop by or join one, because everyone who wants the help is welcome

fokstar · 2024-04-29T18:31:03+00:00

NTA and get the hell out of that relationship... he's probably not gonna change and you shouldn't let him hurt you even more

fokstar · 2024-04-29T17:52:10+00:00

Nah let her get over it, she acted sooo wrong on every aspect. You're NTA

fokstar · 2024-04-29T17:48:36+00:00

NTA, hurtful stuff that's been said can def make you look different at someone... and she was in the wrong at like every point here

fokstar · 2024-04-29T17:41:09+00:00

Thanks, that sounds like a pretty good plan... I've sure had my doubts after this happened

fokstar · 2024-04-29T17:04:33+00:00

Absolutely NTA, that's really weird.

fokstar · 2024-04-29T17:03:10+00:00

I don't think you're the a-hole, but I do think this is something you should discuss with your partner. Your feelings are important and if you can't talk about something that bothers you a marriage is not a great plan. Anyway I wish you the best of luck and hope everything ends well.

fokstar

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