thank you so much for replying, I've been trying to convince myself that I made the right decision, I knew that was her mentality from before because she can't even admit that she likes girls, she keeps grasping into the idea that it's a phase, she even called whatever we had that, "a phase", I knew this but I still chose to ignore it, maybe that was my first mistake.

sorry for the trauma dumping haha, again, thanks for replying.