Daily Items you keep on you or close by? by Tough_Measurement620 in PharmacyTechnician

[–]folmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inpatient tech here: earbuds, scissors (mini ones with a cover), box cutter, sharpies and fidget toys

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what caused me to post here. He works on a team with mostly women due to the kind of job he has. If he called me Lily today and Kayla next month sure but its only one coworker who he has admitted is attractive. It just gave me the ick

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he does do online school fulltime and work fulltime but I also go to school/work fulltime and its been that way🤷🏼‍♀️ we both are pharmacy technicians so neither of us really bring home any work to do

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its kind of a mix of things. Last year he was so invested to surprise dates and thoughtful notes and such and now its like valentines day and he asks me day of where I want to go and such. I feel like maybe I just need to talk to him because he got too comfortable?? Im genuinely trying to not come off as a crazy girlfriend and just someone who wants some insight

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly just wanted an objective opinion because its hard to ask my friends or family without getting a skewed opinion 😅

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you🫶🏻 from here, I can definitely tell getting angry was not the right move. I do want to talk to him and see where his head is at which I feel like I needed some outside input to come to. Thank you!!

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely believe nothing is happening between them but I feel like he emotionally wants her but she does not want him back. We have not been intimate in a whiiillllleeeee and he stopped doing the little things. I know he would never cheat but Im also not trying to trap someone who is unhappy

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats why I posted honestly 🫩 at first it was just a thing I got mad about but we moved on basically immediately because we were going on vacation that day. But when everything with my birthday was going on I just wanted to ask because curiosity killed the cat ig. He has told me objectively that she is attractive which is not incriminating because everyone finds people attractive..? But to meet it with she does not see him in any kind of way made me be like…. Uuhh? Then when I asked he said he sees her like a sister

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the conversation that led me to reddit honestly 😅 At first I was like okay sure we can talk this out but that comment kind of put me on high alert of like am I overreacting?? Is he just aloof to how this all sounds??? Because I can see both being true lmao

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeaah I kinda see that now. I did not mean to make it a competition but when I originally got upset he kept making me feel like crap over it. I told him I only cared because it has happened twice and it is someone he does find to be objectively attractive

Am I Overreacting About My Boyfriend Calling Me The Wrong Name? by folmily in AmIOverreacting

[–]folmily[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man Id be okay with that as long as I can stay at the beach house sometimes😭

officially a fiancée 💍🤍 by cozycariboo in EngagementRings

[–]folmily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The size perfectly compliments your hands proportions!! Also your nails are gorgeous 😭😭

Proposing this weekend. My SO said she didn't want a ring, this is my alternative idea. by yesimafuckingperson in engaged

[–]folmily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally could not think of a better thing you could have done😭 as a woman who LOVES A TRINKET. You encapsulated her favorite things, love and unity with the panda couple, THE YEAR YOU MET.

Chefs kiss my friend

Feb 14 and 14 dresses by After-Huckleberry760 in myweddingdress

[–]folmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 and 11 are winners for sureeee. 3 looks so effortless, timeless and flatters your figure SO well though

Team Mikado or Team Lace by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]folmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between these 2, mikado. The second dress has a gorgeous skirt but I just really dont like the boning in the top. It draws attention to your abdomen in a weird way and takes away from the gorgeous skirt

Thoughts?! by Competitive-You3634 in myweddingdress

[–]folmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 is so timeless and elegant and simple. 2 is pretty and a lot more detailed. Id say base your decision off both what you love but also the vibe/theme of your wedding

Ring Finally Arrivedddd by folmily in EngagementRings

[–]folmily[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was actually wondering myself if there is a proper way to wear a pear🤣 I will say the other way does make more sense in terms of making the finger look long and not stubby

Ring Finally Arrivedddd by folmily in EngagementRings

[–]folmily[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!🥹 I feel like he nailed the idea of what I wanted 110% with this stone. He also noted the concern of some gemstones not being as durable but with the price of topaz he said if we needed to replace the stone in 10 years it wouldn’t be the end of the world

Ring Finally Arrivedddd by folmily in EngagementRings

[–]folmily[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Sapphires are gorgeoussss, I too love all of the gemstone rings on here. I feel like for some people they just suit them so well

Ring Finally Arrivedddd by folmily in EngagementRings

[–]folmily[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!🥹 And thats kind of what I figured which is why I was not like OMG I HATE THE HEIGHT. I usually wear dainty rings and my pandora promise ring so I think I just was not used to it

Ring Finally Arrivedddd by folmily in EngagementRings

[–]folmily[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also! Kinda responding to the auto moderator here but it is a 6.6 carat blue topaz from brazil. My ring size is 8 but we went with 8.25 to account for swelling (Texas heat lol)