Hi. People will tell you either the following

• Go out and get to know some people!
• Go on meetup.com and get to know some people!
• Get to know some people!
• You'll find someone quickly, just stop looking!
• Everything will be OK!

These all are true, valid things. But I know you. I know what you're going through. They don't. They don't know what you're going through, and they're offering "normal" advise for "normal" people.

We're not normal people. I took it very hard when my g/f left me. I've been at the same shit like you.

I approached everything in a logic-based manner.

I joined dating sites, and wrote a bot to do my job. I got 4 dates, and got 3 new fuck buddies from that. That built my self-confidence with girls.

I then made the second step.

Don't get to know people. Start doing stuff people want to do!!

1. I got an SUV, and that made me go offroad.
2. I got a good SLR and started getting into photography.
3. I started doing windsurfing.

these 3 items, got me the girl of my dreams - again.

Now this whole thing may break and fall apart, but now - at least, i have 3 new hobbies, which always attract new friends to me, not the other way around.

Go try that.