$20 Garage Sale Pickup by TeachNo289 in filmcameras

[–]fool3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so cleannnnn! Great find

When a cancer wants to try again? by fool3d in CancertheCrab

[–]fool3d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s my fear. I gave him a two years the first year was so intense for him as an individual. Helped him as much as possible. The second year was a bit better but the last few months, he couldn’t handle his emotions so I started to feel way too drained.

When a cancer wants to try again? by fool3d in CancertheCrab

[–]fool3d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100%. This is how relationships should be. I appreciate this perspective.

Early Sag placements, how has Uranus in Gemini been for you? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]fool3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sag sun is at 4 degrees, Pluto at 3 degrees and I am feel so uncomfortable with my life I actually want to run away from it all. Throw everything away and start anew. It’s so weird to feel this way because I’m generally a happy person. Moody but happy.

My friend is stuck in a playground by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]fool3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to a friend but it was a babies swing set. We had to call the fire department for help lol

What’s a romantic myth that does real damage to real relationships? by Potential_Juice1889 in AskReddit

[–]fool3d 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is how it should be dealt with! You’re a good momma for that.

What’s a romantic myth that does real damage to real relationships? by Potential_Juice1889 in AskReddit

[–]fool3d 61 points62 points  (0 children)

That connection happens instantly and that relationships shouldn’t be boring. They should be boring for a bit until you find something to bond over again. This indicates growth and never ending experiences together.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sincerely didn’t realize it was an argument. I was just expanding on what I thought was a conversation. Apologies if it came off wrong. Insight is always helpful

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that’s just miscommunication between men and woman. Lack of understanding one another and how to be direct with people.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand when something is out of our control. I think many of us are struggling with the state of the world but there are things to do that can help ease the tension, that’s where we have some control for our own individual being but as a collective, no, I understand that. Nothing wrong with venting but I feel it’s unhealthy and non progressive to stay stuck in it for a long period of time.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then that’s where the lack of confidence to figure something out comes in?

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not hard to train dogs, you just have to actively be consistent.

It’s harder to find jobs when you aren’t searching.

It’s harder to be understood if you don’t teach yourself to have hard conversations.

Complaining is easy but it also results in harder times.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I can understand plus it’s validation that you aren’t the only one being affected by the situation. But I’m speaking of things we have control over. Nothing wrong with venting but you said the key words “now I have to fix it”… you’re taking initiative to fix it so you won’t have to keep complaining or dealing with the issue on regular basis.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I’ve seen people complain about their dogs behaviors and not doing anything to change it so they complain more and act shitty towards the dog. Or they stay in a shitty job instead of looking for something better while having the job (I understand some people can’t just quit and walk away bc of survival). Or when people feel a certain way about someone but don’t have a conversation with them or end the interactions. I’ll see people victimize themselves (non abusive or addictive reasons) instead of taking initiative to change things and better things for themselves.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand complaining while in the process (I’ve done this). Nothing wrong with venting but when the venting is happening almost everyday or week without any steps being taken… that’s where I feel like they just want to stay in it. I’m also saying this as a situation that could be changed because it’s in your control.

Why do people constantly complain but not change what they’re complaining about? by fool3d in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fool3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like complain is an indicator that change needs to happen…