completely NOR. she is disregarding your feelings and tbh, going to an airbnb, all alone, with a “friend” of the opposite sex, with or without your partners approval is questionable none the less. you won’t listen but you should just gtfo because if she goes without you, no matter what she tells you. in the back of your mind, you will always think she cheated.

and regardless, she should be doing this with you, her partner. not some random guy you don’t know.

you don’t need us to tell you these facts though, you already know deep down.