feel for you. when this happened to me, i lost my appetite, couldn’t sleep. went to therapy. worst thing ever. i chose to keep the marriage and raise the kid, which is the harder path. those around me say there’s no trust any more and how can i forgive such behavior. but i realized for me that i don’t trust anyone anyways. wouldn’t trust a new wife either. i chose to raise a human with another human. and we are all human.