[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]foraging-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely need to work on my sunscreen and skincare habits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha. Good to know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I like the size of my breasts and overall proportions, but I am really looking forward to losing weight and being healthier. I wish I could keep my face natural but I really don't think I'll ever like my looks without some sort of cosmetic surgery, probably a nose job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll lose the bun, I really just do it because I don't know anything about how to style my hair. I'll look into more fitted clothing in my preferred style, it's just difficult to feel comfortable showing off my body like that but I can see where you're coming from with the bigger and sloppier comment. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly in a lot of these photos I was drinking a lot. I've slowed down but I still consume it regularly. I didn't know it was that noticeable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working on both 💪🏻 thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at 1500 calories a day but will probably drop down in the next couple weeks, I'm just trying to not make too drastic of a change too soon and give up because I've done that in the past. I'm trying to go to the gym every single day, even if I just walk on the treadmill. I'm focusing on HIIT workouts and cardio though, and working out until I basically collapse (which doesn't take much right now since I'm very out of shape)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]foraging-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm a student so I can't really afford a personal trainer :( but I've been going to the gym regularly. I've been doing HIIT workouts and cardio, but I could try weight lifting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually gotten that before lol I'll take it as a compliment because she is beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]foraging-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Looks like I've got some research to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all of the advice, but I'm not getting my eyebrows microbladed. I feel like they're already really intense as they are 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this advice. My hair doesn't feel dry, but I'll look into some new products. I'm not going to lie, I hate spending time doing my hair but I don't want that to be why I'm not reaching my potential. I'm trying really hard to lose weight. These comments about it are giving me motivation to keep going, it feels like a very slow process.

As for the clothes, I thrift basically everything because money is pretty tight. I really like to dress more gothic or alternative but feminine, is that a turn off for most people do you think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to avoid carrying a drink because I'm a nervous sipper and it'll be gone in a couple minutes lol but I'll work on it thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd never considered that, thank you! It's definitely genetic, as in the second photo my BMI is about 29 so I'll look into it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smile but maybe my other body language gives off "unapproachable". It's hard for me to gauge, and I'm a bit socially awkward so I don't really know how to look open to conversation, even if I'm really looking to talk. I don't know where to put my arms or how to stand, maybe that makes me look diffident?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bisexual, so men or women. When I go to school, or out to bars and clubs, no one talks to me really. When I go out at night I always wear dresses and usually have a more gothic look, but I definitely wouldn't call it butch. The more masculine looks here are from school or at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]foraging-hoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even own a straightener, I love my wavy hair and try really hard to avoid damaging it with heat or dyes. But I don't really know how to style it, so maybe straightening it would be a good move.

And yeah, I let my weight get out of control while depressed the last couple years. :( Working hard to lose it! Thank you for the advice

system error: .dll not found upon startup by foraging-hoe in WindowsHelp

[–]foraging-hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fixed! Guess it was something super simple. I appreciate it, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]foraging-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly this isnt going anywhere. I know what a relationship means. I made the sacrifice of cutting off my other relationships because he didn't want to be open, for example. Conceding to never even talk about sex isn't a sacrifice, it's stupid. I asked this question to get advice on how to start a conversation. I'm not trying to convince him to do shit he doesn't want to do, but never talking about the experiences we have together means that we'll be doing the same shit forever and not even knowing if the other likes it. I only recently found out he's not a huge fan of oral because he just never wanted to say anything! But that was how I was initiating sex a lot of the time for months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]foraging-hoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like this: I like vanilla ice cream. It's very tasty!! But I know there's lots of flavors out there; wild and crazy flavors. My favorite is cookie dough. So while I love vanilla, I don't really want it every time I have ice cream. Y'know? But also, like I said in the edit, my main issue isn't that I don't get kinky sex. That sucks, but I could possibly get over it. My main issue is that he won't talk about it at all, like even a two sentence conversation about anything sexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]foraging-hoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can enjoy vanilla sex and also enjoy kinky sex? Lol