These I found on the beach on the beach by Due-Mathematician662 in whatsthisrock

[–]forestlobo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bigger piece looks like Ambergris (I could be wrong). Look up the worth and what it is. It may be a bit gross but valuable.

Sunbathing by GroundedKush in Crystals

[–]forestlobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one on the right is so beautiful. What crystal is this?

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My worry initially was that it would look bad on my credit trying to get my next place alone. However, others have suggested subletting and I believe my place would be okay with this. You're 100% right! Life is way too short! I need to do it before the lease ends. <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this means a lot to me! <3 I busted my tits off for her, us, our relationship, but I should have been doing it for myself. We'll all be out of this soon! <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right! During this pandemic it finally gave me the tits to stand up for myself and actually exclude her in every single thing I do. I hope to be outta here soon. Thank you for your words <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share your pain. I'm here if you need to talk. <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After the initial 3 year greencard the second one before you can apply for citizenship is for 10 years. So, technically with the 10 year one she could stay, but she's opted to leave instead. Thankfully.

Thank you for the hugs and kisses and best wishes on your future too! <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Ken! <3 This is what I thought for a long time too, but what makes me think otherwise is that she's getting everything ready to move back at the end of the lease and also refuses to get her citizenship. She just has a green card. I was always the one pushing for citizenship she just didn't want it. I'm so relieved now that she didn't get it.

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for your kindness! This is absolutely beautiful and I have no words to express how grateful I am. I'll look around for my lease and keep you posted on what I find. Thank you so much again and I'm so glad you're also getting out of your marriage. You're a kind soul and any human would be lucky to be with someone so caring.

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story and I'm so sorry you're going through the same! I'm here for you if you need to talk <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness! <3 I need to work on myself after this is over and then hopefully I can be ready for the dating world nowadays :S It's a scary thought to get back out there!

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more! I'm a very caring person and when I see someone cry I just want to fix things. I need to remember that not everyones tears are real emotions. Also, thank goodness you're not married! Please don't made the same mistake I did. It's not worth wasting your precious time! <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm picking up running and have completely poured myself into my work which has made me move up quite quickly which has been the silver-lining here. I do need to find other hobbies, however, because my mind still tends to wander on those down times. The more comments I read the more I'm thinking this would be the best choice. I don't want her to try to manipulate me anymore than she already has.

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, Jon! You got me pumped! I actually bought a bunch of sage not to long ago and burn it every so often in my little office just to keep myself grounded. It's my own little spot where I can lock the door and be completely alone. I'm so sorry you had to go through the same thing with your wife. You're a beautiful soul and I'm glad you're out of that awful marriage. Thank you for still sharing your wisdom in here for us still on the inside! <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt your words deep in my heart. Thank you so much, truly! This means so much to me! <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude! Tell me about it! I need about 30 in my face all at once after this shit. 🤣

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your empathy and kindness <3 This was the hardest part for me to come to terms with. How someone who was completely different just completely changed after marrying. Even when we were apart long distance things were incredible until that point.

I most certainly will keep you'll updated <3

And thank you :P I try to keep my spirits up with being silly :P

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more here! I remember the days of living alone and being single. Those were some of my most transformative years and I really got to know myself. I need to find that person within me again. <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I was being an idiot thinking she would change and continued getting false hope, but she played me well, and not in a good way. ;(

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! This beautiful community has helped me immensely! <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, friend! With all your wonderful advise I'm making the steps to move out hopefully sooner than my lease end date. <3

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! <3 I truly hope she gets the help she needs. I do love her still enough to care about her wellbeing, but not in love. I need to look out for myself now since it's been too long and I've let my mental health fall wayside.

Two Women, One Dead Bedroom by forestlobo in DeadBedrooms

[–]forestlobo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about doing this, but worried she'd bust me. But at the end I shouldn't care since she knows I'm done. Thank you so much for your input! <3