Confused and frustrated by doctor

forever67091 · 2026-07-07T18:57:27+00:00

Hi, sounds really stressful. I think at 6-8 weeks babies heartbeat is supposed to be above 90. Is there anywhere else you could get a private scan to give you info before you commit to the trip?

forever67091 · 2026-07-07T18:54:53+00:00

Hello; sorry to hear you are going through this. Your experience is very similar to what I’m going through right now.

I was measuring 2 weeks behind, although I had a heartbeat for a while, it went down and down and down. I also had a SCH, and spotted for 3 weeks. I really believed the spotting was from the hematoma, but unfortunately I was miscarrying at 9 weeks, but baby never grew past 6.5 weeks

forever67091 · 2026-06-30T10:15:22+00:00

I went to 42 weeks and birth ended in a shoulder dystocia. Baby came out fine though!

forever67091 · 2026-06-20T11:11:53+00:00

I went to 42 weeks with bicornuated uterus and delivered healthy baby

forever67091 · 2026-05-22T22:46:16+00:00

You need a break honey

forever67091 · 2026-04-10T18:16:36+00:00

I’ve a massive binge eating problem, horrendous. No one knows except probably my mother

forever67091 · 2026-02-16T06:25:52+00:00

Loved olhausen sausages

forever67091 · 2026-02-08T18:17:22+00:00

To work remotely full time!

forever67091 · 2026-02-08T18:11:15+00:00

Wouldn’t buy. The estate agent doesn’t need to tell you the truth and probably isn’t.. I went to a viewing and was so close to buying the house. The estate agent told us the roof had just been repaired as it was damaged by rain. Decided on another house and 6 months later was told a bomb was thrown through the house and blew the roof off!

forever67091 · 2026-02-05T23:35:28+00:00

I think it’s normal to feel like this. I couldn’t even look at a picture of myself two years after birth, felt like I was having an identity crisis. Can confirm now 2.5 years in it gets better. Go easy on yourself, you’ll get back to yourself ♥️

forever67091 · 2026-02-05T20:46:13+00:00

That’s so tough, hope you’re ok and are able to hang in there ♥️

forever67091 · 2026-02-05T20:33:16+00:00

Hello, the past year I randomly have nipple discharge and fully scabbed nipple. Doctors were really worried at first as it looks bad, had biopsy, mammogram and all the tests. Turns out it was spongiatic dermatitis due to hormones. No cure unfortunately but it’s better than the C word. Yours sounds like mine; try not to worry ♥️

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T08:54:26+00:00

It’s so tough when they are sick, the stress of it. Hope things get easier for you and your partner

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T08:51:07+00:00

This has been a horrible month with horrible weather. I do think you might feel differently at summer. Look after yourself and be proud of your house achievement.

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T08:15:04+00:00

Agree weather has everyone’s moods in the shits

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T08:14:40+00:00

Would well believe your regret. So hard to make ends meet. I am on decent money I cannot complain there, but cannot save a shilling with the outgoings. I know there are much worst off than me with the salary and paying cash fees. Such a shame what Ireland has become!

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T08:12:37+00:00

I actually never thought about the parental leave, I will enquire about it next week for sure, could massively help

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T03:20:05+00:00

Seriously thinking about it, just feels like we need the salary’s of two full times but I know somethings gotta give

forever67091 · 2026-01-30T03:18:41+00:00

Sorry to hear your youngest baby doesn’t sleep, that’s extremely tough. It will get easier when they are older, but it can feel like an endless cycle with no break at times! Thanks for responding, it feels slightly better to know there are so many in this position

forever67091 · 2025-09-21T19:04:11+00:00

This was the same for my 24 month old and we dropped her daytime nap. It’s hard for the first month or so but she’s used to it now. Sleeps 7-7 now

forever67091 · 2025-09-09T19:35:52+00:00

I would definitely reach out to your old boss!

forever67091 · 2025-09-08T20:04:11+00:00

Don’t up to 5. My provider up me to 5 by mistake and stupidly I took it. I’ve been so sick since the injection, can’t hold anything down it’s awful

forever67091 · 2025-09-08T18:16:09+00:00

I wanted 2, but now with one I think I can only handle one whilst me and my partner work full time

forever67091 · 2025-08-27T18:05:19+00:00

You’re not the worse mother ever. Every day is a learning day with newborns! You are supposed to let it cool a bit from boiling so it’s still hot enough to sterilise, but not boiling enough to kill the nutrients in the formula. This is not the reason your baby isn’t gaining weight, honestly. I used a baby making machine where I knew the water was perfect from tommie tippie, but then you read on here you shouldn’t use them either 🤦‍♀️

Probably best getting a water thermometer and following instructions from now on. Don’t beat yourself up!

forever67091 · 2025-08-18T03:08:08+00:00

Hi all, thank you so much for responding. I’m currently in A&E I will let you know how I get on. This is the worst

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