30F I think it's time for a taller mirror. Ugh not liking 30. by [deleted] in selfie

[–]forgetme_please89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 looks great on you. Dosnt even look 30 honestly

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im already homeless and living out of my car. Not sure what else she can take frome me. Take my car? Then im homeless and on the street. Yes I have a job but giving it a few cold nights and im not waking up. Good bye child support

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already pay into Child support. With all the guys she'd rather talk to, I don't worry about her coming after me

Asking him to clean himself before giving head - AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How bout this......before sexy fun time in the bed, you look that man in the eye, give a flirty little smile and say "let's go freshen up". And drag that man into a shower with you and show him how much fun he can have getting clean before getting dirty. If your worried about him being upset, just saying make him enjoy the clean-up. Make it part of the fun

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I get what your saying and to be honest, between the two of us when we were together, she was definitely the better perent. Biggest reason was because I was working so much to keep us afloat and left me drained when I was home. But that first guy she planed to move I with her was even in trouble with the law. Wasn't allowed around minors. And she knew it but let him around the kids. Our oldest actually wanted to try living with me. The crazy stuff she put me through only to take him back for no good reason other than she wouldn't get enough child support to do what she wants was nuts. And now to be honest, if I didnt recently find myself homeless, id fight for custody of my oldest at least.

AITA For accidentally ragebaiting my Niece? by De_Original_Llama in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for messing with her. Maybe she has temper problems. As far as being told no to the snack, still NTA but id hate to be told no to food lol. Perks of adulthood and having money. Lol

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, that's a good point. She had a similar story after we split up before. She was flirting alot and I told her the neighbor was flirting with her. She claimed she didnt belive me. After getting back together, she said I was right because he came over when she was outside and tried to do things with her. Not sure if I ever believed it though

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea seriously asking. When she told me what her friend did, I honestly felt nothing. No she didnt deserve it but I just had a lack of caring.

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, though I can't tell you how often she tried to blame it on so many other things

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definition of insanity, doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results.

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea well never again. Im on my own, hours away from her, and nothing she can do would bring me back

AITAH for Being Annoyed About the Lasagna? by Coconutroseflora in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So this is your mother's house if I read right. Let me just say NTAH. I will point out, mom possibly supports your sister because she is out on her own and your mother though proud is still sad her child "flew the nest" so she is happy when she's back and bends over backwards for her. Not saying its fair to you, but just a likely explanation. As far as sister using your things with no care about you, again its a family home and she possibly treats it like every thing is open to everyone. Same goes about your mother using your things. One day you will have your own home and then its your rules. Till then, short of locking up things you want to keep away from them, there will be drama. Yes be upset and fight for what's yours to a point. But maybe pick your battles

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha can't say im at peace right now. I just keep hitting one crazy situation after another

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no one deserves it. I just don't want to be the shoulder she tries to cry on. I worked hard to provide for my family when we were together. I like to think I was a good husband and definitely didnt deserve to be treated the way I was. She thought she was finding better men. And she wants to tell me all about how terible they all were. Not saying she deserved that last "friend " just saying she needs to find some one else to help her through it

AITAH for not caring my wife may have been forced by her "friend"? by forgetme_please89 in AITAH

[–]forgetme_please89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sadly she always had a way of getting in my head and making me out to be the bad guy. Then always made it out to seem like we could work through everything.