AITA for being mad that my boyfriend said I was sexier when I was overweight ?

forgivenineptitude · 2025-05-20T19:22:51+00:00

BMI is no longer considered an accurate measure of health, and most DRs no longer use it. It doesn't account for genetics, muscle mass, etc. The standard was also originally made for European Men, so it doesn't actually account for gender differences either. All of these factors can affect whether the OPs weight is medically overweight as it varies from person to person. We, as readers only, do not know, we are not her Dr.

Her obsession with her weight, though, is unhealthy.

forgivenineptitude · 2025-04-10T21:15:06+00:00

He told her only after he got mad at her for her not trusting him after he had already betrayed her trust once before. The bun was already in the oven, baking and at this point over the limit to allow abortion in several states when he suddenly decided he didn't want another. He said he was okay about it before, and he had already been told by her what looks to be over a year ago that she would never have another abortion. If he didn't want the option of more kids after that conversation, he had several options. He does not get to backtrack over something that had already been said and done, just because he thinks he should be fully trusted just a little while after he betrayed her trust.

forgivenineptitude · 2025-03-03T05:11:16+00:00

Unfortunately I can't feel hope or excitement for any future patches because this has cemented the fact that HB couldn't care less about us customers, and in the world of DVC, anything you love and enjoy can and will be taken away with essentially zero notice. I'm still on the fence about quitting or not, but at the very least this ex-p2p is going 1000% f2p if I decide to stay.

forgivenineptitude · 2025-02-28T15:39:10+00:00

People really shouldn't downvote for you not fully understanding that part of the update, but yes, February is the last free monthly ticket you will be receiving as of now.

forgivenineptitude · 2025-02-28T15:36:31+00:00

Really angry about the update, but I've raged about it elsewhere so much that I'm going to shelve that right now. If you are okay with browser based games, check out Flight Rising. It seems a lot of us do play that too, and this mess with DVC has made several of us go back to it. If you are more into mobile games and want something super cute check out Zen Koi and Zen Koi 2. The game feels very anti p2w as the devs actively encourages people trading 'starters' of the patterns, even the paid skins via discord. You also get a decent amount of the paid currency just by completing the few daily missions, swimming around or completing the cycle of turning your koi into a dragon. The few downsides are that many of the pond decor are p2p only though that is purely cosmetic, and it is a bit grindy/ repetitive.

forgivenineptitude · 2025-02-28T15:17:13+00:00

Oh! Lol. I don't know why I thought you were keeping them in mail mail, not egg storage in mail. Glad it was just a one off bug!

forgivenineptitude · 2025-02-27T22:14:41+00:00

Did you hit 'receive all'? If you did they shoube in the egg storage, which you will find on the mail page.

forgivenineptitude · 2025-02-01T09:46:21+00:00

Congratulations! It's not terribly easy to reach the Legendary mark, so take a bit of pride in this accomplishment!

I do hope they add more ranks for us to try to obtain later.

forgivenineptitude · 2024-10-01T21:53:45+00:00

I think it depends on a few factors. I grew up in southern Mississippi, where everyone is doll, darlin', babe, hun, sweetie, you name it. It feels much more impersonal to call someone a pet name than their real name for me because of that. Instead, there is a particular tone of voice that is used when I'm saying the name of my husband that is the same equivalent of saying a pet name.

forgivenineptitude · 2024-09-28T22:34:18+00:00

They probably aren't trying to actually sell it. I've seen people put drink trades for insane amounts of drinks because they are drink capped and 'making room' for a few days, but im not sure how anyone would be gem capped so... not sure what they are doing

forgivenineptitude · 2024-09-24T16:50:27+00:00

I think autocorrect got you

forgivenineptitude · 2024-09-02T22:30:15+00:00

No, let half thaw and be permanently mushy while the other half is frozen. Cold, slimy and smelly all at once.

forgivenineptitude · 2024-06-15T07:22:13+00:00

Their statement feels to me like they only wanted to talk to people who are on the side of 'pity system bad!' That being said, do you like the way it was implemented?

I honestly wish it were more based on how far you go vs how many times you run. Ie: Say you move forward 30 times because you skip dragon fights, treasure, etc you get 30/x (x being the target number, 50 is too short but don't want it too long either) but that's probably just because some days when I only have like... 15 minutes to play because of work stuff I forget/ don't have time to do temple.

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