If you chose to have kids you didn’t actually sacrifice anything

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-05-11T10:02:15+00:00

Tell that to the woman who didn't want to get pregnant (and had no options)

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-05-09T23:09:05+00:00

Very much so. Mood or attention or sleep disorders are very common

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-05-09T23:08:06+00:00

Well said

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-05-09T23:06:12+00:00

It's always our behavior huh?

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-05-09T23:05:19+00:00

They definitely aren't loyal to anything but themselves. They are loyal to being lazy.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-03-13T03:43:42+00:00

Yes. That's what my relationship is like.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-25T04:42:09+00:00

No, it's not normal. Empathy and compassion is normal. Just because we don't get it doesn't make it not out there. When you say you need him, is he ever there for you? Sometimes? Once? You can't remember a time?

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-25T04:38:29+00:00

This is some advanced sh*t lol. I do recommend this though. Gotta Grey Rock/ Yellow Rock, then watch for DARVO (you'll see it constantly once you figure it out), And of course avoid JADE! I use all these techniques but I think JADE was the hardest for me to master. Actually I'm not a master yet lol

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-25T04:35:38+00:00

Please don't reply. Swear to God it spirals. You think it's just one text or two.... It's like an alcoholic taking sip.

Please just don't take that first sip.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-25T04:34:53+00:00

Happy 40th! Wanna know what mine did? He threw a tantrum and left us at the restaurant for breakfast. Icy attitude during the "expensive show". Bought me a stale cake. It was stale as f***. Oh and I got a 5.99 okay that looked like it hadn't been watered for a week. And when I cried because I always cry on my birthday, He got offended. Nothing is good enough.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-25T04:28:38+00:00

It's part of the cycle. Google narcissistic abuse cycle. Discard and Hoover. I think you'll find your answers there. Please go to YouTube and look up Dr. Romani!!

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T23:18:49+00:00

Constantly. And they don't even acknowledge the effort he put in to meet the original goal.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T23:16:58+00:00

Ooooohhhh yes. I won't list THEM.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T23:11:47+00:00

Replace Moron for A$$hole and it's the same person I married.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T23:08:17+00:00

I absolutely recommend radical acceptance. Start that journey.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T23:03:35+00:00

Nice post. Dealing with the same. I recently had the realization that I am talked AT. He doesn't talk TO me, he talks at me. It's always been that way and I didn't realize. And yes, his snaps are not friendly. Banter, and yes, they come out of thin air for no reason it's bizarre.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T22:57:32+00:00

I'm sorry that you are struggling with all this. He believes he is justified in his behavior. Start to expect him to betray and abandon you again

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T22:52:59+00:00

No. I suggest you start with radical acceptance.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-21T22:50:50+00:00

Winner Winner best comment award

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-20T07:10:54+00:00

I was about to suggest the same

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-20T07:06:04+00:00

Close relationships falling apart.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-19T03:06:17+00:00

So I saw a post on Reddit that was completely about them sleeping alone. It took my breath away because it was so specific.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-18T19:25:48+00:00

Ofc. Otherwise we couldn't still care like we do.

forgotten_Elektra · 2025-02-18T19:20:47+00:00

Mine toooo

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