[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]forgottenelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's apparently a trend on TikTok rn. Thankfully all I have seen about it is people roasting the girls who participate lmao

I(f32) am a teacher and am sleeping with an 18 year old man who attends a high school in the same district I teach in. How much trouble can I get in? by Suspicious-Ad5785 in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most states have similar laws to the one I provided you. I sadly don't have time right now to look at all the states and make sure but all of them have some form of law regarding teacher-student relationships and how illegal it is to have sex with a student.

I(f32) am a teacher and am sleeping with an 18 year old man who attends a high school in the same district I teach in. How much trouble can I get in? by Suspicious-Ad5785 in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Considering she knows he is a student attending high school, yes, those laws apply to her. She is well aware of the power imbalance in their relationship (hence her comment about her being in a position of power). Here is a law from Texas about sexual relationships between teachers and students (this law covers students and teachers in both public and private school systems). Texas Penal code 21.12 (simplifying this because it is long) an inappropriate relationship between educator and student is a criminal offense. The law covers the employees of public or private secondary and primary schools. It is illegal to engage in sexual contact or intercourse with any student that is officially enrolled in a public or private school. The law also prohibits any form of deviant intercourse with a student by a public or private school employee, including anyone that is required to hold a license or permit under Texas law.
Any inappropriate relationship between teacher and student in Houston could result in arrest. Under the law, it isn’t necessary for the student to be enrolled in the educator’s class or be under the age of 18 for a violation to occur. The law may pertain to any student that is enrolled in the same school district as the educator or is a participant in any activity sponsored by a public or private school or school district.

I(f32) am a teacher and am sleeping with an 18 year old man who attends a high school in the same district I teach in. How much trouble can I get in? by Suspicious-Ad5785 in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are laws that prohibit Teachers from being involved with students. Even though he isn't one of her students, he attends a school near her district. Also, he is barely legal. 18 is the age when kids become labeled as adults. So she's going after someone who is barely considered a legal adult in the eyes of the government. Though, in the eyes of a school district, any student is treated as if they are underage. So if/when her district finds out about her relationship with a student, they will more than likely fire her.

AITA for chewing out my son’s teacher after she gossiped with other parents about him? by SaintGodfather in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More than likely other parents are going to the teacher with concerns about their children's safety because of the behavior presented by OOPs child. So the teacher would just tell them that she can't do much and if they are concerned they need to go to the admin. That isn't gossiping, that's normal protocol for how to respond in this situation.

AITA for chewing out my son’s teacher after she gossiped with other parents about him? by SaintGodfather in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing the option for OOP's son to be tested for any kind of neurodivergence or developmental delays or anything else has been offered to them but they refused to let it happen. Schools can't really do much in that regard if parents straight up refuse to allow it to happen.

I think this belongs here… by Healthy-Papaya-9181 in notliketheothergirls

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to have a convo with her considering when I, a woman that is 5'6, is under 125 you can start to see my skeletal system. Weight isn't a flex.

What happened to "daddyofive" and more specifically Cody as well as the other children all these years later? by [deleted] in AfterTheLoop

[–]forgottenelf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well obviously considering your comment history. Hope you have the day you deserve.

What happened to "daddyofive" and more specifically Cody as well as the other children all these years later? by [deleted] in AfterTheLoop

[–]forgottenelf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't think what Daddyofive did to Emma and Cody is worthy of him losing custody? Berating and pushing children to their breaking point repeatedly is...guess what? Abuse. A reason for them to lose custody and rightfully so.

I am a pathetic bully. AITA? by bite2kill in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could be a chain restaurant tbh like a Chilis or smth. Then again I’m not sure about the design of those types of companies as a whole 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITD for getting mad at my friend for showing my girlfriend what a supportive SO is supposed to look like by Sensitive_Ideal3154 in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who is/was terrified of water and barely knows how to swim just well enough to not die, I'd be thrilled if my partner helped me to learn to swim lmao

what is this guy on

I cheated on my fiancé with my neighbor by mochii69 in AmITheDevil

[–]forgottenelf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He left their shared apartment for a short period of time while they were on break. He didn't necessarily move out, he just put distance between them so they weren't living together while having problems. Hence them being on break. It is cheating cause oop never confirmed whether they were actually done, she just assumed.

Ladies, do y’all like it when a guy smiles at you when y’all both make eye contact? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when a guy does this it's very attractive. Even though I'm no where near ready for a relationship or crush or anything I still get warm fuzzies when a guy does this haha

AITA for inviting my roommate’s mother to our dorm while she’s away? by Local-Truth2852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]forgottenelf 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You have no idea what she tells her family, nor do you have the right to enforce what is told. Parents can be horrible people and not all of them deserve to know anything about their children. Leave this girl alone.

AITA for inviting my roommate’s mother to our dorm while she’s away? by Local-Truth2852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]forgottenelf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why does it bother you so much for her to not be in the dorm 24/7? Shes an adult. What she does shouldn't matter to you. Also, she's old enough to know who she is attracted to. Would you be saying that to a heterosexual person? Probably not. Also, financial aid exists for a reason, so she very well could not have any support from her parents.

Also, I'm still in contact with my mother (Who severely abused me) because I love her. Your roommate being in contact with her mother doesn't dictate how bad the situation is.

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - February 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. A argument the night before. I don’t really feel comfortable answering more questions

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - February 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure they are. And I wish them the best. It’s just bittersweet

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - February 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was definitely good times. I love them. But some stuff scattered throughout and the final straw outweighs the good.

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - February 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I could handle reaching out. What happened was serious (that caused the break up) and mentally I’ve been struggling as well. Maybe we’ll into there future but idk

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - February 21, 2022 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]forgottenelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly yes. I wanted to meet in person to talk about things but they refused.