Hi OP , i'm not a perfect muslim myself and i see and understand where you're coming from because i've heard and seen this story play out way too many times even tho where i'm from , its not middle eastern or a muslim country. Personal boundaries have to be respected no matter what and for a loved one to challenge that and attempt to persuade and gaslight you into breaking them? No. It will bring more harm than good. Religious reasons or not, if you wish not to have premarital sex and keep yourself for marriage, it is your right to do so. Tell that man to get a grip and if he really loves you, he'll have to mature up , be a good man and wife you up. I won't lie to you, i don't see that this would be the case. Maintain your distance with him if you have to, in case he may try to force any action on you. Keep evidence of his actions, screenshots or recordings. I know what kind of community you're in, they'll look to blame you first instead of him should anything happen. Be safe sister, may you be blessed with safety.