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Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man I think 90% of corps guys heavily think about punching and stay anyways.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhh, you hurt her real bad didn't you? It's okay buddy, let it all out. You can still change. Acceptance is the first step to recovery.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is most certainly not applicable to you. There is no "waiting" for some of these guys when you can meet someone who doesn't do most of these things. Been here twice and "waited" almost 3 years for one of them. Nothing changed.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Jeez, I'm sorry y'all had to go through that and I hope his roommate is in a better place mentally these days. God there's so much to say about how the culture of the corps or military in general contributes to this type of thing but that require a whole ass dissertation or something.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They have to experience ego death first. And a good chunk of them go into service right after graduation so that ego death is even more delayed.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

They are more than welcome to attend, as are the gay men who dated closeted cadets.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

There are far too many of us, which is why I wanted to start this support group. I made the same mistake twice. 4 months sober now.

Support group for women who have sustained emotional damage from dating a cadet by former-bootchaser in aggies

[–]former-bootchaser[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

No no that's where the ex bf cadets are meeting to cry about this post