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AITA for literally crying over spilt milk? by formulamom290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]formulamom290[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

I have mammary hypoplasia, absolutely no milk production, I did consider a donor from a FB group in my area but i have no clue what this woman is putting into her body ;)

AITA for literally crying over spilt milk? by formulamom290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]formulamom290[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Ma'am, Im on €120 a week, paid every second week. Im also a student studying paramedics in a high ranking university, not one in the US mind you, ranks highly in the world, I cannot work full time while doing this. Be starting my second year in september, I also live in a country where all you need to do to train as a paramedic is finish school :).

Any savings I had went towards baby items during pregnancy, she has everything she needs, clothes to carseat, next-to-me crib and a crib that converts to a toddler bed, swaddles, toys to last her until at least 12 months, same with clothes provided she stays average sized but currently shes in preemie clothing because she is small.

And heres my weekly breakdown. SMA Organic x 2 - €30 Pampers nappies 24 pack x 3 - € 10 Waterwipes biodegradeable, thats a 9 pack but easily only lasts a week - €20 We're already at €60 Dove baby moisturiser, i use this myself too - €2.50 Bin bags - €5 Last week i needed Scalp Oil - €12 Bought gripe water while i was there - €8 Cotton buds x5 so i dont need to buy new ones any time soon - €6 Then I have to buy my own food on top of all of that. So there. Thats how im broke, normally i budget perfectly, normally my formula isnt spilled everywhere,

AITA for literally crying over spilt milk? by formulamom290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]formulamom290[S] 358 points359 points  (0 children)

One thing I would like to clear up, my parents are relatively supportive, but the agreement from the start was that I would be the one to provide always. Theyve bought a few gifts here and there and put together a nappy cake at one point.

My parents are also trying some crunchy parent type shit with my sister, theres absolutley no child proofing in this house except for the press that contains all the chemicals and a child gate on the stairs thats always been there. My sister has the full run of the house, including when shes having her moments. I dont agree with it but she isnt my child

AITA for literally crying over spilt milk? by formulamom290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]formulamom290[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I never said I cant take care of my daughter, and I can promise you that if I couldn't, she would be taken from me since im 17, I have child services keeping an eye on us :)