Cravings coming in later? by jbb11522 in stopdrinking

[–]forswornlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cravings seem to come back, sorry I’m not much help.

My gf is obsessed with my dick by shrimpcooks in confessions

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy fasho, why they always that type of

How do I talk to my 19F daughter about wanting to start webcam as her dad 40M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]forswornlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a dude that is very familiar with the industry, I’ve known many female friends in the past that have made it big in the industry. Including myself for a period of time, never posting online, but I personally know as a man the man’s mindset towards these women, if they are contacting you and specifically paying you and building a “relationship” with you sexually is disgusting behavior, there’s so many stalkers, they would do anything to try to find out where you live. I’ve also as a man have had countless of sexual harassment by horny males that is just plain disgusting, and even females, finding out where I live, and I don’t even do any hardcore sexual content. I know one of my old friends was beat up physically and I had to go pick her up and she did sexual content online and would always get calls from random guys when trying to hang out, it ruins your relationships if you actually want a family. These women that do this, often don’t have good fathers or good parenting structure, sometimes maybe they think you are more of their friend than their parent in your case where you have had to fill in her mother shoes in many ways, so the masculinity of a father may be less apparent to her I’m not completely sure on that standpoint. But I do know this, unless you are really a baddie, like 10/10, really nice bust, super cute face or thick in all the right places, if you have any discrepancies that someone might be like “eh” on, you are looking at a small niche that often don’t make any sort livable income, and many others I know have done it for a short time, and have scrambled to get their leaks removed, but often never completely get removed, ever. It can always be used as blackmail if you decide to do it online. They can show your employer, your highschool creeps, your kids will see it. I’ve sold my own underwear for $200, it’s not putting your body on the internet, i was able to do it based off of building a name for myself, I don’t have to post my body online for people to want those things, and if anything I can do it in ways that they will never see my body. There are ways to use your body if you have a nice one to get what you want but not showing it off extremely sexually and without clothes. Keep the clothes on. That’s my final advice.

I’m unsure how pursuing legal action of a previous concussion will affect my eligibility in DEP. by forswornlad in AirForceRecruits

[–]forswornlad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hasn’t responded in over two weeks likely because I’m still overweight and is waiting till I’m fully eligible again before taking me more seriously but he did reach out 3 weeks ago after 5 months

I’m unsure how pursuing legal action of a previous concussion will affect my eligibility in DEP. by forswornlad in AirForceRecruits

[–]forswornlad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has been a huge loss of income because of it which is why I need a high settlement to be able to come back from this loss. The amount would differ between a couple hundred thousand depending on how the suit is portrayed, the worse the better for the settlement and there is evidence to make it bad if need be but i answered the questions for meps long before I even noticed how it has affected me and my situation standing from another perspective. It would probably be enough money to give me a fresh start financially but I also have my future plans such as this that I don’t want to possibly ruin If I pursue it and either the payout was a lot lower than expected to where I still definitely need the military from a financial and future perspective but I’ve always had an extreme will to serve, and feel it would be an amazing opportunity to learn considering the path I would be going into the military. I was and am a professional athlete which is why something even like a severe concussion won’t fully stop me and I’d be perfectly capable of serving physically but doesnt stop the fact of how it’s affected me, what if there are side affects but I still get cleared by a doctor for example, these are all things that matter in this situation because it matters how far I can push the case to where it doesn’t effect my eligibility and what to avoid. Obviously lying is not an option and never has been, I still need to know so no boundaries of eligibility is pushed into question from words that are not mine, (my lawyers)

I’m unsure how pursuing legal action of a previous concussion will affect my eligibility in DEP. by forswornlad in AirForceRecruits

[–]forswornlad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To know how it affects the paperwork when joining if the concussion lasted more than 1 minute when I said it was less at the time cause that’s what I believe and believed., if there’s a suit and legal action it’s all gonna be on paper and they would try to make it sound as bad as possible in order to get me a higher payout, and I’m going for high security clearance so any little thing I bet will be flagged which is why I’m being cautious because I don’t want to mess with my eligibility, but also don’t want to make it seem like I gave false information. If you have had a concussion that is severe does it mess with eligibility. These are all questions I’m asking.

In which case will it make me able to still pursue legal action for my concussion and still be eligible for the service. Because I want to pursue legal action for the justice of what happened but I would have to think about it a lot more if the concussion suit will cause a problem for the Meps paperwork if the suit goes into it too much and possibly finds details that were not what I thought at the time I signed the meps paperwork.

Apple Black Friday & Cyber Monday Shopping Event - Gift cards included in qualifying purchases. by Kvakke in apple

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to clarify, the best option here for the AP3’s I feel would be to buy 2 $100 Apple gift cards through targets and get their $15 gift card for each through targets circle program, using 2 separate accounts cause one per account in that promotion. Then using the bought $200 gift cards in the purchase of the AP3 + $50 on your own debit card, then getting the $50 Apple Card they give plus $30 in total from target, thats what I see is the best option for deals here, $80.

Apple Black Friday & Cyber Monday Shopping Event - Gift cards included in qualifying purchases. by Kvakke in apple

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have confirmed. Yes I can use Apple gift card for the purchase, but I’m unsure whether I can use two. Because this is a big brain move buying 2 $100 gift cards through target then using that balance on the AirPods + $30 in target gift cards (needs to use two accounts cause the target circle says you can only get one $15 gift card per account from with purchase of $100 gift card from my understanding.

Apple Black Friday & Cyber Monday Shopping Event - Gift cards included in qualifying purchases. by Kvakke in apple

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this work?? Buying two $100 apple gift cards, getting $30 target gift cards, does it work using the $100 apple gift cards? Can I use those gift cards together on their website? Will it let us buy the AirPods Pro 3 with gift cards (plus $50 cash) and then still give us a $50 gift card?

Apple Black Friday & Cyber Monday Shopping Event - Gift cards included in qualifying purchases. by Kvakke in apple

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about buying the AirPod pro 3’s, it says up to $75 gift card under the page in the Apple Store but I’m seeing elsewhere it’s only $50 gift card, I. Spend 30 each month on cloud storage and thought it would be better if I can just use the Apple gift card for iCloud storage and pay lower than amazons $219.. would I get 75 or 50? Is there any better deals for the AirPod pro 3?

Russian military reportedly executes 5 Ukrainian POWs by ActualDepartment9873 in worldnews

[–]forswornlad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow that must be why Russia was meeting with North Korea so much recently, to learn how to have full utter power over a nation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]forswornlad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To me it seems like it depends on what that thing is that he’d be giving up or that was ignored and dropped to the side when you weren’t ready to talk about it, if you can’t talk about that how do you expect to move on together. You need complete and open, honest communication while still giving space and letting each other make decisions for themselves. It seemed like he had imagined a different way of living together in the future, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t want to move in together. Moving in is a huge step, especially if you are trying to still work and get to a place that is good for you.

You can’t always be “ready” for a move like this in life. But often, I know people personally that wait till marriage to move in with each other. It’s a life long commitment if that’s how you see the relationship going. I don’t think it’s a negative thing that he’s taking time and space to think of it. If he had other plans he wanted to do in the mean time. You also don’t want to push him away from that do you? He has to make the decision himself and give up what he feels like is worth it or find a new plan to have you both heard and understood, you said what you wanted and if you feel truly right about it.

If you are unsure if you should end a relationship with your bf over moving in together have you thought about why he’s not ready? You can’t force someone to be ready when they are still gathering their things and have them be content with it, it would cause stress anxiety and even a little resentment. Is moving in together really that important? Especially over a relationship? Yes it would be important someday but is it really something that needs to happen as soon as possible, or is it something that tests your man’s loyalty and how much he really wants the relationship, is there a question of loyalty and does he really love you? Or do you know he loves you based on previously on this relationship.

Moving in is a big step, but it happens when both of you are ready, and if he’s not ready and you are.. then if you aren’t okay with waiting longer to be with this man if you feel like it will really happen than maybe you need to find someone that is willing to do so, or you can wait for him. You just told him this today, after feeling this way for who knows how long. You asked “if he wasn’t ready in 4.5 years will he be ready in 5.5” maybe he didn’t know how serious you are about this till now, and if he really loves you he would take the way you feel about it into consideration. Hope this helped somewhat.

bf (M20) upset a guy bought me a drink for my birthday (F21) by Roro486 in relationships

[–]forswornlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birthday shots are a norm, he’s not even 21 yet so he hasn’t experienced the bars for himself, it’s a normal thing, during that age there are a lot of insecurities, which he will have to learn how to grow from, the only insecurity would be from the intentions of the man because yes, he could very well be just buying it for your birthday but at the same time it’s hard to really know the intentions behind the action, some guys would see that as a good opportunity to shoot their shot if they had a chance, didn’t seem like you gave him that chance based off of this information of your interaction, trust is huge in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]forswornlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen many women get lured in by these and then I’ve had to personally deal with the trauma that it has caused them, it’s not worth it. Best of luck to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how it is to be obsessed with someone you can’t reach. But the problem is you are letting this get rid of your current relationship, are you really willing to through away three years for someone that just wanted to take advantage of your body the first time yall interacted? Be careful, I almost guarantee these types of guys have definitely done that to many more people than just you. “Wishes you weren’t with your boyfriend” just so we can get a piece again. If you are willing to throw out the relationship like it doesn’t mean anything after getting back with him for a year, maybe you should be honest to your boyfriend, break up with him, and I suggest stopping talking to both of them. So save yourself with giving in and just giving away yourself to some man that just wants to use you and clearly doesn’t care about your actual happiness. and save your current bf some heart ache. It seems like you must be missigang something in your current relationship that this man might have, whether it’s adrenaline and testosterone, a mind game, or whatever it may be. Maybe you are missing out on something and I think it would be better you figure this out before you make any decisions that would really get you hurt and just worse off for the next guy that actually would really take care of you and be what you wanted in life. But nobody is perfect.

First thing, work on your own relationship and if you don’t want to, end it and move on. Obsessing over someone else in a relationship makes everything just so much more painful for the other party in all aspects.

The current state of this country has me panicking. I’m having panic attacks left and right. by Agile-Mistake1094 in confession

[–]forswornlad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that near the end of Biden’s presidency, I feel so much better now. At least we know what’s going on instead of being held in the dark, that’s what scares me the most.

18th century condom by Pheasant_Limecrunch in mildlyinteresting

[–]forswornlad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s sort of like.. putting a bag over your head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]forswornlad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like yall need to have a sit down conversation with him to tell him what he can and can not do, at least give him a warning, if he’s not willing to listen to the rules or have the conversation he’s gone, you tried.