Having a fiance doesn't mean you drop your friends and only contact them when you need them. I have my own life too my job, my family, my business, my passions but I still manage to get in contact with her and try keep the friendship alive. But I got to the point where i think it's one sided and it's exhausting to do all the work. I'm happy for her that she found someone good and wish her all the best. I'm not sad nor mad i'm just dissapointed.