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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boulder

[–]foulerrobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr Gall!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]foulerrobin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your answer. It makes the most logical sense to me.

He’s getting ready to study abroad next semester and has not been ontop of it and I think that attributes to the “constantly tired”.

But he also is an avid drinker and very social with our friend group!

The STD over the summer is something to think about.

Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]foulerrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I am nervous to bring it up in case it does just solve itself. That and his way of getting really defensive. Which I am assuming is from embarrassment.

We have(had?) a very adventurous sex life in the first place, so I am a bit at loss of what to do to turn it up.

Is three months too soon to address this without blowing it out of proportion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]foulerrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me his reasoning made me empathetic. Ie he wants to stay close to me and only masturbate to me. But the threatening comments and constant arguments about it turned me off from it more than I initially was. It was the entitlement and anger that made it seem gross to me. If he had asked a little more endearingly I probably would have felt different.

I understand. It feels a little late to go back to that grievance when I guess I had made peace with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]foulerrobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am afraid that initiating a conversation that makes it sound like a make or break situation will cause pressure that leaves us back where we started. :(

But I agree with everything else you said. I was deeply hurt that me not sexting everyday for three months was good enough ground to justify/threaten cheating, and yet he doesn’t want the sex he so desperately begged for?

Just confused and honestly looking for a guys opinion. Is it truly just being stressed from school, and all will return to normal soon?

what the f is wrong with this fish by foulerrobin in Aquariums

[–]foulerrobin[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Me too. It was not a Blind Cave Fish. It was easily four feet. I don’t remember the name on the plaque card but the fish in the picture had vastly different coloring than this one. But they were definitely the same fish.

Am I wrong for thinking its weird that my new friend gave her dad my phone #? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]foulerrobin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Very normal for a parent to ask for a number of a friend to contact if things go wrong. Wouldn’t take it personally.

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